Wifes Choises

Hello,


My wife locked me several times in our marriage but short amount of times. This time its a little bit different. We have hit one month (I know it doesn’t seem a lot for most of you but for us it is).


This time there is a difference in her. After locking she started to act like our sex life has never existed before. We are in a sexual feasting. There is no teasing, no insulting, no building the sexual tension… nothing at all. And this drives me crazy. She only says I will be unlocked in new years eve.

At some point I even did some forbidden stuff just to get punished but still nothing. She just calmly said if this happens again I will add 10 more days. Thats it...

How can you guys cope with the ignorance?

 

After some intense days of frustrations, we had the talk today. We really had to talk because I was totally annoyed and also annoying my wife.

At first, I also thought she was trying to break me too but there was something different which I could not figure out. Long story short, she spiled her thoughts on the table. After she put the cage, her thoughts and feelings (not love, sexual) has changed towards me. She says that “after the cage I don’t see you as a man anymore and totally not attracted sexually. That’s why I am not into teasing you. I forced myself to do so but couldn’t find any desire in me.”

Chastity (game, kink, fantasy what ever you call it) is changing my life and doing it so fast that I can’t mentally cope with. This is disturbing as hell but in some way its arousing also.

 

After 2 days we both cleared our heads and started the proper conversation. First thing I wanted was a release on this talk, I wanted both of us to be on equal terms. We sat across the table and talked everything starting with what we want. We were completely honest and open. This conversation showed me that the more we communicate less problems we have.

During the conversation, conversation became writing our own chastity agreement. As I said we started with what we want, we mutually agreed that we want to continue with chastity for an indefinite time, at least for now.

She explained her point of view which caught me a little bit in surprise. I was not waiting her to be this dominant. She said that; “I don’t want your sex drive to lead our sex life. I will be in power of when, where and how we will have sex. I want to see you try, beg and even cry for sex and in the end when you can’t get it, I want to see the frustration in your eyes.”

As I said in the first post we have “played” with chastity in last six years several times but in a different manner. It was being used as heating up the desires. This time was it is different, oh boy… I can’t tell you guys how different she is. At first, I was scared because I couldn’t understand what was going on but after these talks my fear turned into curiosity.

Now we have our chastity agreement, with all the do’s and don’ts. Basic rewards and punishments…

At the end of our mutual consent on the agreement, I kneeled in front of her with my chastity device in my hand and begged her to lock me. She just took the key in her hand and said you put it on and I will lock it. I don’t want to touch your penis. After she locked the device, she said “you will forget the touch of a woman on your penis before you get a release. I will break you so good that you will never ever want to be released again.” (Not her original words but our native language is not English and the best translation, meaning wise, is this)

 

New years eve was our first target date. I was told that my first release will be then. On new years eve we were invited to my parents house for a big family dinner which included nearly all the close family members icluding her parents also. At the dinner I had a small incident with our youngest son. He jumped from his seat while I was trying to get him, which he hit my nose pretty bad and even my nose started to bleed. At that moment I got angry because of the pain and ect. but did not made any scene. I knew it was not intencional.

But me getting that anger made my wife to punish me.... (which I learned later)

So after the dinner we headed to our house and after the kids got in bed we were finally alone. I was waiting for that moment for a long time

She went to the bedroom and changed to her cosy pijamas and got confortable in the couch. When I started walking towords her she pointed the floor to me and made me sit in the floor. I waited infront of her feets for an hour and then asked when or if she will unlock me. She asked me to get the gift from the next room whitout aswering my question. I got the present and she ordered me to open it. It was a red thong. Next she made me to beg to wear it like a ladyboy. After she was convinced she said "your actions tonight made me so dissapointed so you wont get anything today. you are not even worth of wearing this thong."

our first touch was at 00:00 she pet my head lightly and said happy new year darling and continued to watch tv. I was so bored and sleepy but she made me wait until she is ready to sleep. It was 02:00 oclock when she finally said ok lets go to bed.

When we laid down she just said good night and turned her back and went to sleep.

Apperantly I will have to wait for one more week but I am not an idiot, in one week she will be having her period and I will be in another city for travel. The earliest time she can unlock me is probably is end of January, if i am lucky...

 

She is getting meaner and meaner. Yesterday she made me wear the red thong over the chastity device. I waited her on my knees facing her while she watched the tv. After an hour she said that i will be pussy free from now on. “Seeing you like this has killed every atraction you have on me” she said. This was bit of a shock to me because i wasnt expecting this. I knew she would not let me cum for a long time but being a pussy free is something else in my mind.

 

She is getting super mean but it kinda turns me on. The emotional pain is something new i am experiencing.

 

The strugle I am having is, I never expected her to be like this. Everything she does catches me by suprise because normally she was more to the vanilla side.

I am trying to adopt to the new wife but strugling majorly to do so. I am not saying I dont want these things but clearly I wasnt expecting.

Any advice how to cope with my innerself? Because normally, in our short term plays, we both would focus on her but now she wont even let me touch her in any sexual way. So now there is not a single sexual thing in any way. I went from getting it regularly to not even touching my self pretty fast.