Our first week

My wife was a little overwhelmed with my level of attention because it's total opposite of me most of our 20 years together, so I've had to be mindful of that.

 

well if She wants to lead it then She will but not till She dose want to. I been to some Ladys houses with Mistress and i dont think some of them wud want to lead cos they just ask me if i cud do something for them and not just tell me like Mistress dose.

 

In de first year of our flr it was difficult for me when i came home after a day work too change. First i relax and then i became the mistress. Now I'm also at work time the mistress.

You can maybe help her when you must make a desision, a simple one say ' you do it' and give the time she need too maked it. So you can help to build on her confident.

But most important is: she needs time too change en when she change she feels it.
When you talk with her about flr ask her about her questions but don't tell her what to do, she will ask you how to do.

When she's ready she can join us at the females and ask for help.

 

You can't make people share your link. You're fortunate she goes along with it as far as she is. Give it time for things to develop. Good luck.

 

You need to back off if you are serious about having a successful FLR. What needs to happen is that she needs to get comfortable being the leader in you relationship, and not just playing a dom for your pleasure (which it sounds like she is doing now). A week, a month, or even a year, is a very short amount of get her comfortable for her to be served by you, and for her being a leader.