This past weekend my wife( my Keyholder) and I was at a bar just a little out of town. As usual my wife had her earrings with a key charm on 1 and a lock on the other, a pair of heels with a zipper in the back with a lock dangling from 1 and a key from the other and my key dangling from an anklet. We had met some fun people 2 ladies with a guy. After a few hours of drinking and dancing, 1 of the ladies asked my wife, “ what’s up with all the locks and keys?” Before my wife could answer, the lady said she thinks she knows but not sure, so my wife asked her what she thought it meant and she said”chastity “ I thought I was gonna die. My wife looked at her and said exactly! She looked directly at me and started laughing, the couple she was with asked her what she was laughing about and she pointed at me and told them “ he’s lock up in chastity “ but they didn’t understand so she proceeded to tell them “ his wife has a device locked on his cock so he can’t touch himself” by this time it was really getting funny but I thought I’d choke when the guy said “ I wanna try it, I wanna try it” drunk talk I’m sure but the lady asked where they could get a device and when we told her she look at him and said “ oh we are gonna try it”. I may or may not ever see these people again but I’ll always wonder if she locked him up or not
I think more people would be willing to try it, if they were nudged in the direction. It might not work or last a long time for whoever tries it, but normalizing anything gets people in the mood to try.
I've had similar things happen to me. Sometimes I'll see it on a lady and ask her. Sometimes someone sees the key around my neck and asks me.
I just remember this... In the first couple months of doing all this my wife told a friend or two about it. It was a little awkward around her friends at first, but it was nice to see she was gung-ho about it.
Cool story, and a cool wife. Letting the secret out in a low risk, low pressure situation is a good start. Next, she might tell one of her girlfriends. Someone that you know. How do you think that will make you feel. I think it would be both frightening and stimulating for me.
Yes it was a very fun night out. They did tell us they are at the same club every Saturday, so yes we do plan on going back in a few weeks and seeing if they tried it out or not. Several of our friends do know about our kink side but I don’t think they truly understand what chastity lifestyle is all about. We’ve been doing the chastity lifestyle for many years now and it just seems almost normal to us now, so it’s no big deal if others know. We even have shirts, mine says Locked in Chastity(with a lock in the middle and hers says Wife, Mistress, Keyholder (with a key in the middle) if people don’t know about it, they really don’t have a clue what it means
That sounds like it was a fun (most innocent) night out. I can't wait to hear any follow-up stories which ensue! Perhaps when you go next time, you could bring a list of devices and/or companies you recommend to help them get started in their search, if they haven't done so already. Heck, even recommend chastitymansion.com so they can REALLY see what this is all about. ~subrick
Maybe if you are lucky she will let you be the demonstration display model during her chastity 101 presentation to potential local keyholders.