Evening Everyone! I am a late 30's submissive male in Ottawa, Ontario. I'm married to a wonderful switch woman, who has helped me explore my kinks for nearly 6 years now. We are both interested in femdom, and various other kinks. We started experimenting with femdom early into our relationship, beginning with basic anal play and rather quickly moving into pegging. After moving in together, we started attending a femdom night at a local kink club. This adventure allowed both of us to explore our interests even further. I personally had been curious about chastity for a number of years, but never gave it a real honest shot until recently. I would wear the cage while being pegged, or perhaps when alone for a night; but I never heavily discussed it with her until recently. This Canada Day weekend, I asked if I could wear the cage for the entire time we were off (a 4 day long "weekend" for us). She agreed and spent the 4 days teasing me with images, videos, and more. It culminated in a Sunday evening where she not only confessed to absolutely loving the control, but in pointing out my intensely increased submissiveness. After a discussion, we are now putting chastity into our regular rotation; probably one or two days a week. We plan to increase the duration of the lockup after we switch from the Holy Trainer to a Cherry Keeper (for keeping things clean much more easily). My hope is that we can train, and maybe give Locktober a shot. Thanks for listening, and nice to meet you all!