How do you give your KH pleasure?

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How do you pleasure your partner when they want to be penetrated?

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  2. Unlocked with orgasm

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  3. I wear a strapon

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  4. They have a side partner

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  5. Other toy (dildo gag, etc…specify in thread)

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  1. CagedandPantied
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    #1 CagedandPantied, Jun 11, 2021
    For those of you who are in committed relationships with your KH, how do you provide her (or him) with pleasure? I think the oral component kind of goes without saying, but what about if/when they desire penetration?

    For us, it’s a combination of techniques…I’ve trained myself to withhold my orgasms pretty well, so I can be unlocked once or twice a week to penetrate without orgasm before being locked back up. I also use the strapon on her about once a week, and then I’m granted a full release every few weeks, give or take.

    I’m interested to hear others’ arrangements.
     
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    #2 LtdMvmt, Jun 11, 2021
    We use various toys (dildos, vibrator, magic wand), my tongue, or my fingers. There may be bondage involved for either partye, depending on the mood. PIV was a rare occurrence even before chastity. We very recently acquired a strapon, but haven't tested that yet.
     
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    #3 Maid Denise, Jun 11, 2021
    I use my mouth and fingers and her toys.
     
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    #4 SubHubbyInChastity, Jun 11, 2021
    Our situation is very similar.

    But the short answer is, "anyway she desires".
     
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    #5 true42, Jun 11, 2021
    No oral, unfortunately. Sometimes she'll allow me to pleasure her with my fingers. It's usually PIV, and ...

    ... I haven't figured that part out yet.
     
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    #6 madams-sissysub, Jun 11, 2021
    I don’t, madam has a bull for that.
     
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    #7 valesk25, Jun 11, 2021
    We have a fairly protocol way:
    1. Tongue service to dry residual wetness after peeing
    2. After paper and wet wipe of bottom, I'm allowed to have a final two or three licks of Mistress' glorious arse
    3. very occasional use of tongue to satisfy Mistress - but we use toys as well
    4. For the 5 or 7 days we are together, I get no releif, it's all about her control over my orgasm
     
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    #8 Susanstoy91, Jun 11, 2021
    My Wife(KH) will mostly masturbate in front of me. We haven't had PIV in years. I'm allowed to lick her fingers to get and keep them wet. The taste off her fingers drives me crazy. When she is done, I get to lick her fingers clean...
     
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    #9 CagedandPantied, Jun 11, 2021
    Wow, I didn’t realize how lucky I am. So many boys not even permitted to eat or lick her. I’m a lifelong cunnilingus aficionado, and that’s my sexual bread and butter these days, so I’d be desperate if I weren’t allowed to service her like that.
     
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    #10 QueenSophiesSub, Jun 13, 2021
    I do as I’m told, but my Queen never lets me penetrate her (not for 6 years now). I always use my mouth but when she feels like being penetrated she will use a remote controlled egg or have me use a dildo always with my mouth firmly attached to her clit.
    I can’t even remember what PIV sex feels like, the only release I’m allowed is occasionally with her hand, usually ruined.
    my whole sexual pleasure comes from her orgasms and we’ve never been more content.
     
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    #11 true42, Jun 14, 2021
    I used to get to give her pleasure with my tongue, when we were dating. But at some point, it somehow made her uncomfortable (psychologically), and it's not something that she wants to discuss (and I respect her wishes, therefore I will not bring it up). Regardless, I'm willing to be as patient as it takes, in case she ever wants to try it again. I miss it. And I really, really, really enjoy making her orgasm (it pleases her immensely, and that in turn pleases me immensely), so I'm always looking for ways to please her. She enjoys everything else still, and I am 100% not complaining, and always very lucky and happy to be hers.
     
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    #12 NZSenator, Jun 14, 2021
    Increased intimacy is one way, more kissing, casual groping / fondling without any expectation of reciprocation or as a lead on to sex.

    She is very sexual and enjoys various acts, if we are having sex, I will always make sure she has 2 or more orgasms with a dildo / wand combination. She enjoys oral but doesn't cum from it, but dildo/wand to orgasm, then oral, then dildo/wand to orgasm then oral drives her nuts (pleasure / pain due to sensitivity). I will also wear a strap on in which case doggie penetration is one of her favourites.

    She also likes to give oral and enjoys licking / sucking my balls, she will sometimes do this to orgasm for me, othertimes not.
     
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    #13 SubSnuggler, Jun 15, 2021
    When I am present, she gets her orgasms with my fingers, or my tongue. Occasionally I will wear a strap on and she will get multiples that way.

    I do get piv once or twice a month but I can’t give her orgasms that way anymore. If I get permitted piv it’s a reward for good service, not for her pleasure.
     
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    #14 Devoted Hubby, Jun 15, 2021
    My mouth only
     
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    #15 starflyer, Jun 15, 2021
    only with my tongue
     
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    #16 inchastity4her, Jun 15, 2021
    I recently did a post about this very topic. We have used the Real Cock 2 several times and it never fails to give her mind-blowing orgasms. It literally looks like a clone of my cock. It's not cheap but when warmed up in a heating pad it feels incredible. Unlike a hard silicone dildo which would hurt during aggressive sex she can take this one hard and deep and loves it. I wear my 1" Cherry Keeper under the harness and go through all the regular motions, kissing and grinding like real sex, she just gets to enjoy denying me. It definitely added a new dimension to our play because now I never second guess if my fetish of tease and denial leaves her unsatisfied. She gets off plenty.

    https://www.chastitymansion.com/for...-and-i-could-be-in-trouble.41398/#post-455214
     

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