Symbolic? Or Actual Masturbation Deterrent?

The main deterrent is that I have to tell her if I masturbate. And I told her that I wouldn't masturbate. So cage or no cage, I'm "locked".

But the steel definitely does focus my attention quickly where it should be ... so some of each.

 

It’s both here, it’s a deterrent, but it’s also symbolic to my madam adores having me in locked and in permanent bondage for her.

 

I'm kept from masturbating with the cb6000s., before I was locked I was a masturbation addicted. No longer.

 

A chastity device is rather like a sellotape seal on an envelope, a "police line do not cross" tape, or a red traffic light.

All are physically trivial to defeat, but all are a powerful symbol of where you should not go.
And most of the time, we all obey those signals.

 

Deterrent hell! It's preventative.
I have a 3 inch hollow steel tube up my dick, a 1.75 inch overhead framework shortening my shaft to boyclit size, I would have to turn my dick inside out or something to pull out, and the whole structure is so tight there's no room for movement.
I precum a lot but orgasm?
Taint hap'nin!

 

Ms Cecilia,


why donˋt you allow your husband to masturbate? And how often is he allowed to have sex with you?

 

I'm in a similar boat as @2north and I never promised to be orgasm free, but rather to wear the device and accept that she makes the rules. One of the most important rules was open honesty (and I truly agree with that). As a result any "cheating" is met with a countermeasure.

My answer to the OP: the cage is at least 99% effective as a deterrent for me. Yes, it can be beat, but not easily and not without notice and consequences.

Of course I could be dishonest and hide a vibrator somewhere but that would be breaking even my own rules of honesty. Instead, I tell her when chastity is getting hard to take and she changes things up (but so far has never given me an O in such circumstances).

 

I just found out that just by applying downward pressure on my cage while highly aroused I am able to have and orgasm. I don’t plan to continue doing that, but it happened the other day while trying to contain my building sexual energy.

 

You know, I guess I should add that when Master locked me into the cage He never said it would be to stop me from ever cuming again. It was all about Dominant Control. ' Good boys don't play with themselves cody!' ' Good boys are rewarded with orgasms, bad boys are not. But Masters alone decide when and if rewards are given.'
The cage wasn't used for orgasm denial, but for orgasm control. He had many ways of making me cum.
It was just that the how, when, and where, were out of my hands...
so to speak....

And the frequency! Oh frequency!
Sometimes there would be 12 hours of continuous milking. It was wonderful for the 1st 2.
That might be followed by 6 weeks of nothing whatsoever.
Or 2 weeks of frequent edging right up to the point of cuming and then stopping....
I never figured out what my body language tell was. But He could see it and knew exactly when to stop.
Sadistic you say.
Thats why it's called bdSm

 

It'S a deterrent, as fumbling it out may be possible, but never back in without a key - so she would catch me cheating,

It's a symbol, that I can feel 24/7 (or 23h 45' /7), that also enforces different behaviour - no more peeing standing - that's real different it you need a public restroom- remebers me without anything sexual. Feeling every aroulsal crushed by the merciless steel - puts me back into my place.

It's not about cheating or not beeing able to touch - it's about feeling it.

Attending parties it's also viewable mark, that my cock is out of play, because my wife want's it this way.
#

 

100%
if there's any chance that I can escape or break free, after 5 weeks I will. This is why an undefeatable device is important for my kink.

 

I am in a stainless steel Nub that is secured to a steel waist belt. There is no way to escape and no room within the cage, masturbation is impossible. The only way to get relief is when KH inserts TENS pads within the cage while sissy is totally bound. This can be nice or very painful, it is KH call. The day may come when KH installs TENS with remote so sissy can be controlled 24/7.

 

Short answer: Yes! (LOL)

Longer answer: For me, it is both symbolic & a masturbation deterrent.

Symbols can & do have powerful psychological effects. Keeping the cock locked reinforces that it is Mistress' property. This has made enough of an impression on me that I am often locked in my dreams at night, and even if not, there is the awareness of it belonging to her.

And while the intention of my commitment to Mistress is strong (to not use her property without her permission), the cage makes sure I don't have a lapse, masturbate & cum without permission.

So yes, for me, a bit of both.

 

Miss Cecilia, please, not "Ms.".

I don't permit husband to masturbate because I am to be the only source of his sexual delight. If he's not under discipline or in chastity, if he wants sex, all he has to do is ask. If I don't have him in chastity or under discipline, he doesn't usually get the chance to ask. I reach out and grab him. This is all about me, remember.

I sometimes have him do supervised masturbation, but that's more for disciplinary or humiliation purposes. If he's doing supervised masturbation, I require him to ask permission to ejaculate. I'll get him to agree to things in exchange for permission. Sometimes I'll deliberately stall on giving him permission just so he will ejaculate and I can make him eat it and give him a tawsing. I like doing this especially in front of witnesses.

 

The 3 of us know it's not secure. We spent a couple of years doing aversion training, plus simply being obedient, and wanting to serve and please. With the cage off, I'd never stroke myself, or get off, but I do find myself idly twiddling it, or letting it get firm. Locked in the shorty cage, there's no dick to touch at all.

 

Here's how I see it

Without some kind of piercing to hold it on, it's easy to just pull out of most cages provided one is limp before doing so (that's pretty ironic though because you'd probably only be tempted to pull out when you're horny OwO)

However, assuming the cage isn't a total piece of trash, it'll end up hanging off of your balls. That hurts like a bitch and ain't no way it's coming off.

So yeah, you could technically pull out and jack off. But you'd have to do so with the cage uncomfortably pulling at your balls. Not to mention trying to squeeze back into the cage after the fact which is awkward and uncomfortable.

In my opinion, that just isn't worth it

 

Sort of all this begs the question as to how long you'd resist masturbating without a cage, if told by your SO to NOT do it.

 

For me, the device is both. Its a symbol, just like the wedding ring I openly wear on my hand. And as a deterrent, it is definitely effect at preventing erections, but with the modification and the punishment pins it is painful to pull out and to stay out, and impossible to get back in.

 

A bit of both. Obviously I could pull out the back and toss one off, and after 30 days I'm pretty desperate to come. However, this is a game I chose, which I could choose to end at anytime. Though I have a feeling she would be disappointed to stop now, not that I have any intention to do so. If I really needed to come I would talk to her and she would more than likely allow it. 30 days is 3x longer than I've done before, and I'm enjoying it too much to give up yet. Kinda hope she holds off on the 1st to make a point. Ruins me on the 2nd a few times and carries out her threat to do November too. Ultimately it's up to her. That made me so aroused imagining and writing that.

 

Oh you naughty boy, good job you have a deterrent to stop you.

 

Maybe a week if I really really tried and she was consistently checking up on me but at some point I'd secretly cheat.

 

For me, I know I could pull out if I really tried to. I could also safeword and my mistress would give me access to the key. I can’t masturbate to orgasm in my cage, but I do spend time touching my cage and enjoying being hard in it. And to be truthful, I’ve never really tried to cum in my cage. I feel like that defeats the purpose.

I like the feeling of being in her cage, I like knowing she thinks of me locked for her. I’ll have some time out of cage this week when I’m seeing my other partner, and that’ll be good, but I like the constant feeling of being locked for my Mistress.

So in short, having her cage on is a deterrent to jerking off. Staying in her cage is partly honor system.

 

We did this once, about six or seven years ago. I lasted 15 months, until she finally relented (sex was becoming a problem because of how often I had to keep stopping).

We agreed that cage less denial just wasn't as much fun.