Becoming Pussy Free - Our Cuckolding FLR

On becoming pussy free...

It’s difficult to come up with a title as there is so much wrapped up in our particular dynamic. I suppose at its root, we are an FLR couple and everything else follows that.
As I write, I have been caged since for about a month w/ no release. Tomorrow we will go to a hotel room and I will watch her have sex with her bull. We do this every few months.
Today we had a long discussion about where she wants to be in this dynamic. We have been off and on in our FLR role for several years. Each time we hit a high, it seems to end with her letting me out and cumming... usually a ruined orgasm gone sideways. We both know the solution, of course, is to simply not be let out and to not cum. Honestly, being in an FLR can sometimes take a lot of emotionally work, so falling back into our vanilla roles is a bit of a break. But more and more, we both feel the FLR should be the default role. For us, to make this work, we both think I would need to be pussy and orgasm free. It was a bit enlightening to here my wife tell me today that she doesn’t at all want or expect me to be dominant in our marriage sexually or otherwise and that she would just as well have another man’s cock in her whenever she pleases. So being pussy free may be in the near future. If I am being honest with myself, this both terrifies and excites me. She likes to peg me (and more) she’s in the mood and I told her though I never cum from this but do have some incredible anal orgasms, it seems a reasonable substitute. As I go deeper into my submissive space, this feels more and more natural.
I will try to update this blog after her date tomorrow.

 

I think it is both of us that feel the pressure. Being in a constant submissive mode is very different than how things were in the past... as is being in a dominant role for her. Hopefully we will figure out how to fulfill these roles naturally. Maybe I do put more pressure on her, idk. I get a lot out of being in an FLR and I am always questioning if she does as well. When I bring it up, she reassures me that she really does as well. I guess I am just needy. She says she finds it amusing when I am acting so... and then puts me in my place.
Last night she unlocked me; it was nice to be free for the evening. But it was also nice the next morning when she was standing in the bathroom with her key in hand giving me a look. She asked if there was any issues/discomfort with my cage. There hasn’t been since switching to the Contender. Thus, I am locked back up. We are making progress. In the past, after unlocking I would remain so for days. Not this time.

 

Well, as I mentioned in an earlier reply, she unlocked me last night. I wasn’t allowed to cum or anything. In the middle of the night we had sex. I came once inside her. I was afraid I would get out of my subspace but I was back in it when I woke up. She had me lock back up this morning.
She did make a comment about “slipping one in.”
I think if I had jo’d in the morning (which I really wanted to do and it took a lot of willpower not to) and had not been locked back up, things would definitely feel differently.

 

As an update to this past weekend. She had an amazing date with repeat bull on Saturday. He fucked her every which way while I watched and filmed... caged of course. He came in her and on her multiple times. After he left she had her way with me, which I really enjoyed. She was absolutely glowing and looked ten years younger.

 

True. That’s a good way of thinking about things. I’m lucky that I’m married to an attentive key holder. The key (pun intended) is to really not make any sort of requests or demands. A lot of us get into this lifestyle with all sorts of requirements, contracts, etc. With her, less is definitely more. If she thinks I am trying to get her to do something, she will 100% resist. What is a bit ironic is that my caged cock now gets more attention than my in-caged cock ever did. In terms of her getting attention, I am pretty much always wanting to eat her pussy every evening. She rarely turns down an opportunity to cum. What is definitely interesting is now she will have multiple orgasms, in the past it was always one and done for her.

 

Currently vacationing with another family. She is wondering if they will ask about her necklace
I said, just tuck it in your top and nobody will be the wiser. She did take her key off for snorkeling, and allowed me to take of my cage... which seemed like a good idea. I went back in as soon as we got back to our room, of course. She was pleased I did so without our her asking, saying I was a “good Bitch Boy”.