contemplating a start to locking up

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    numbers 5 & 6? so this is quite the journey
     
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    Indeed the journey continues. The first 3 had fit issues cage to long . Penis too short? Cage makers lets say often have strange ways of listing cage length. 4th was only 1/2" long. Hopefully goldilocks gets it right of 5&6.

    5 arrives next Monday. Hopefully just right.

    Perseverance is key word.
     
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    I am seeing that shorter is better which is opposite of what I would think. This has been good
     
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    Smaller is better by 1/4 to 1/2" less than flaccid length.
     
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    that has definitely got to add to the confined feeling!!!
     
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    Yes but really helps when it's time to pee.
     
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    OHHHHHHHHHH!
     
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    Alignment is important. Some can get away with still standing. Safe bet is to start sitting. Sine cages require that others touch may have choice.

    It's part of the challenge.
     
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    It's a quick way to join half the population natural habit.
     
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    having to sit to pee- wow
     
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    Guess you don't have to, but accidents can happen. Maybe I should say will happen sooner or later. Caution is advised.
     
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    Is it wrong to think that cant even pee like a man standing up is kind of a turn on- knocking me down a step?
     
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    You could look at it that way. Others might look at it as a step up.

    Depending on your outlook. Everyone has different goals and parameters of the chastity journey. But extended wear situations do require adaptation to routine.
     
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    None of this is wrong . The sitting to pee for some is viewed as a degrading of step down in the male sense of the world. Some enjoy that aspect others just face the fact it becomes a practical need.

    I started sitting over 30 years ago to keep peace with wife about toliet seat being left up and splattered mess on commode. At home it was already a common practice for me.

    Traveling is when I note it the most. Having to wait or find a stall and dealing with messy toliets.

    Depending on your time length cage time you will find how to adapt.
     
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    no wife so i dont have to worry about the toilet seat fight hahahaha
     
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    True in your case. But you may find yourself sitting anyway assuming you want to control your hand jobs. Good luck
     
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    Cherry Keeper is the only cage I will use now!!!
     
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    It's a good choice
     
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    If you even think about being locked in a chastity device, and especially if you are a chronic masturbator, you need to be locked in chastity. Just accept that you are beta and need your partners help in managing your erections. Go small and steel and beg for your partner to help you stop masturbating.
     
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    thanks for the advice
     
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    Welcome and being caged will certainly put a crimp in your masturbation habit;)
    The big thing is for you and your partner to find what works for you both and have fun with it.
     
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    If you're serious about getting your masturbation bad habits under control get caged and give keys to your KH to manage.
     
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    nothing but my freedom, right?
     
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    Just the freedom of playing you're own music at will.
     
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    You're not free now if you're an addicted masturbator, you're the prisoner of your erection.
     
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