Couldn't think of a better title. Obviously, if you're in chastity there is an element of no touch, as in you're not allowed to touch your penis. Beyond that, especially if you have an S.O. in control of your cock, on the rare occasions that you are unlocked are you allowed to touch it? Cleaning, applying lube for sex, etc not withstanding, are you allowed to provide yourself pleasure at any point? I am proposing the idea to the wife that on the rare occasions that she allows me to have a full orgasm, that only she is allowed to physically provide that pleasure. She likes to watch me ruin myself sometimes, so a complete no touch wouldn't work for us. It sounds like an interesting way to further my submission to her. Thoughts?
I can see how that rule would work for the idea that it isn't your penis any longer but hers. So touching it would require her permission and probably only under her supervision as well.
I would communicate with her on it. You're submission to her is doing her bidding. She might prefer your having to ruin yourself as a better act of submission. Whatever she wants is yours to deliver.
Wifey and I don’t have a 24/7 lifestyle, but when im locked I am not allowed to touch myself at all unless performing routine maintenance. No self pleasuring is allowed at all during those periods. It sounds like a fun time to me. If she is your only source of pleasure than for sure it would help your submissive headspace. Hope you guys have a great time!
I am in the same boat not allowed to touch any orgasm comes by her hand. She cleans her penis on maintaince day. I take cage off and put back on that us it. I have not really touched her penis in 7 months.
Each lady sets her rules, ours is follow her choices and keep her happy. That's different for each couple.
Communication isn't the problem, She wants me to bring up ideas and then she may implement them if she wants. There are far more ruins than O's and its usually that after she's satisfied, she gets a kick out of watching me ruin on myself. I made the post to see what others do.
Pretty close to the same. Its a very easy to clean cage, so it usually only comes off when she wants to use it. At that point, she gives me the keys and I will unlock and wash up real quick. At times she'll let me ruin and then give it some freedom overnight, which is really hard not to touch!
Not allowed to touch without her permission. I play with my cage while watching TV with her and it annoys her so. Not in a sexual way, it's like a fidget spinner. Lol Don't touch unless she gives permission.
I am not allowed penis orgasms only vibrator caged ones only 2 this year. Sbe says since it is up to her i will never touch it or feel a normal erection again.
My Keyholder is planning on getting me hypnotized, so I can't touch her property, also she wants me to only orgasm by her comand. Apparently her property and my hands become like opposing magnets and can't touch.
I follow the path my Lady lays down. That often is no what I would desire. For me that takes second place. take what you can. She might decide even ruined events could be reduced or withdrawn. Denial does not have a time limit.
Good luck. hope never to be tasked to hypnosis for anything. Afraid of how mu ch my self conscious would accept. Spooky
She only wants to see my caged penis or even acknowledge it when she has reason. Otherwise it is out if her sight and mind. If I did any handling of it around her it better be by her instructions only.
I am sure you can come to some mutual agreement with your partner. Honesty and communication and keys to making this work.
I am only permitted to touch my self when washing, and putting my cage back on, madam doesn’t want to have to touch it. And if I’m not waging then I am locked up.
How and when i play with Her "toy" is up to @MistressAMA. Any pleasure i can give myself is at Her direction and even then it is likely as much for Her amusement as it is for my pleasure. She will sometimes taunt me with asking how often i used to masturbate and then asking how often now. She knows it was 2-3 times a day before our FLR and now it is only on Her whim--just a handful of times a year (see what i did there? )--but She enjoys hearing me restate this. And i do, too. asa
Sorry, NOT trying to game-up here but was planning to ask a similar question: My GF does not let me touch, period. Im cuffed or tied in the shower, she puts the cage on and off, etc. One of my big xmas gifts was getting to clean myself in the shower, it was the first time I touched my whole penis since April and it affected me more than I thought it would. She was there to make sure no playing occurred. She admitted that this (no touching) is part of her plan and it definately disorients me.
Well i am not locked but in a honor no masturbation without permission system with my gf. I am not allowed to touch my cock when it is hard without permission .its very hard as we are not together this period so requires a lot of control