I haven’t cum in 9 days and been off and on in my cage since then. I was cranky this morning so she told me to put on my cage and she’ll unlock me when I am more submissive. I am so fucking horny and not sure what to do...
Easy fellas, many choose this type of forum to vent frustrations and find a common thread with others. In the beginning, 9 days can seem like an eternity. Sounds like you’re doing pretty good as far as having a keyholder knowing exactly what’s best for you! I myself have learned to embrace those feelings as fore play, crank it up to 11 and roll with your feelings. Not being in control is part of what makes this a thrill. Anticipation is a wonderful motivator. Good luck
She made it pretty clear. If you want to cum, embrace submission. Do what she wants from you, please her, and put your desires on back burner. That is clearly the most direct way to relief. Good luck and enjoy.
Now is the time to channel your sexual frustration into pleasing your KH. Focus on her as the Goddess she is and understand she is simply trying to help you learn how to be the best you can be. Of course you’re horny after 10 days. After awhile it’ll settle into a gentle buzz. Meanwhile if you can get beyond your perceived “need” for release and replace it with a “need” to be happy serving your KH, you’ll find yourself much happier. Good luck and know that most of us have been there - many times. Think of it as the gift that keeps on giving.
I remember the cranky days, probably not getting enough sleep either! Don’t worry, with more training, it will improve