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    #1 Hairybear, Jun 1, 2020
    Hi all!

    I have always visited this site and been an admirer of the community.

    I have made baby steps in the past few weeks with abstinence.

    I will post my story in another thread.

    I just wanted to say hi
     
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    #2 Cumschot, Jun 1, 2020
    Hello
     
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    #3 Hairybear, Jun 1, 2020
    Hello Cumschot . - great to meet you

    I am very much a starter. Im not even at device level yet but i am at 15 days of abstinence and i want to take things further and learn more
     
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    #4 Hairybear, Jun 1, 2020
    Basically.. im a bit scared that this community might see me as a tourist but the idea of total devotion to another person has always excited me.

    I have started conversations with my girlfriend and she seems interested but then talks drift away and obviously i dont want her to do anything she is not comfortable with

    Since lockdown, we have been living separately.

    Under normal circumstances i release at least once a day, but since we were living separately i decided this was my chance to learn some discipline.

    I am currently up to day 15 of abstinence and i am proud of myself, i know it seems like nothing compared to others in this community but i see this as baby steps....

    Without my girlfriend. I have been edging myself. And then stopping at the crucial point . Again, this may seem like nothing but oh my god sometimes i have been desparTe to just give in but i havent

    I want some advice on some things but if the community sees me as a tourist, just let me know

    I have often read this forum, even before lockdown but now i actuLly feel like i can contribute

    Please be kind
     
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    #5 slimswitch, Jun 2, 2020
    I'm barely more than a tourist myself, but I'm pretty sure tourism is very welcome here! No level of commitment is required - anything from intrigued and wanting to learn more to 24/7/365 chastity :)
     
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    #6 Hairybear, Jun 2, 2020
    Thank you so much for being so welcoming! This is a brilliant community!
     
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    #7 MissyB, Jun 2, 2020
    Welcome to our community and I hope you find it enjoyable. I encourage you to participate, easiest way to become a 'local' and not a tourist. :)
     
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    #8 Hairybear, Jun 2, 2020
    Hehe thank you so much for being so welcoming

    Im loving it on here! Everybody is so friendly
     
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    #9 CagedJohn, Jun 2, 2020
    Welcome!
     
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    #10 Cumschot, Jun 2, 2020
    Don't be afraid, we all started with baby steps too
     
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    #11 Hairybear, Jun 2, 2020
    Thank you Caged John. Nice to meet you.
    I love being part of this community
     
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    #12 Hairybear, Jun 2, 2020
    Hehe! I’ve started browsing for a device. I can’t wait to be locked!
     
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    #13 boisub, Jun 2, 2020
    Welcome! We’re all tourists of one sort or another. Thanks for joining us!
     
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    #14 Hairybear, Jun 2, 2020
    Thank you so much for having me, you're all so friendly
     
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    #15 madams-sissysub, Jun 2, 2020
    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    #16 AlfaMan, Jun 2, 2020
    Hi and welcome, and we all have to start somewhere
     
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    #17 Hairybear, Jun 2, 2020
    Hi there. Nice to meet you.

    Thank you for being so welcoming
     
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    #18 Hairybear, Jun 2, 2020
    Thank you very much-

    Youre so nice, i hope we can chat some time
     
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    #19 slimswitch, Jun 2, 2020
    Going to be bold and make a recommendation :) if you're in a position to do it, have a browse of Aliexpress/DHGate and buy yourself one of the devices that cost less than $20. It's a cheap way to experiment and learn more about what you like, and if it turns out to be a mistake it was a cheap one. Right now I'm wearing a device that cost me literally $14 and it's giving me all the frustration you might hope for!
     
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    #20 Hairybear, Jun 2, 2020

    That sounds delicious i'll definitely investigate,
     
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    #21 LesterBallard, Jun 3, 2020
    15 days of abstinence is very good. Well done. It doesn't always have to be a marathon, remember. Whatever gives you satisfaction, that's what matters.

    Good luck and welcome
     
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    #22 Hairybear, Jun 3, 2020
    Thank you very much. Youre too kind!

    Brilliant advice! I shall follow what my body says. Day 17 now and im in no rush to release!

    I see youre based in the uk! Feel free to chat any time
     
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    #23 Eve, Jun 5, 2020
    Welcome
     
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    #24 Mrloched, Jun 5, 2020
    Welcome to the site.
     
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    #25 Hairybear, Jun 7, 2020
    Hi Eve! Lovely to meet you! Thank you for being so welcoming!
     
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