Why are you in Chastity?

What led you to be in Chastity?
I'm into my romantic partner having control over me. This is my interest in chastity. I enjoy kinky play times but also want it to be real. Sure being owned in the bedroom is hot for an hour or so, but all the time? That's crazy hot!

What Benefits are you getting out of it?
Increased thoughts of sex, kink and increased pleasure from sexual encounters. A dynamic that holds me accountable to putting my fair share of effort in to make it enjoyable for both of us.

 

My gf and I use it as foreplay. She likes the idea of me being locked up for part of the day and teasing me. Then when we get together she likes to take the key and unlock my cage. She says she likes the power over by dick.

 

Some time ago we performe chastity as part of FLR and she had the key, but in dicembre she gave me te key back.
I currently returned to the CB but by my own, because I do not deserve to be free, since I cannot satisfy my wife through PIV. She has even told me that we will never have "conventional sex" again.

 

I am in chastity because my wife told me she is not interested in my sexual energy and that I am not her lover. Since that means I can’t be the man I want to be in the relationship, I decided to lock my cock and be the best sissy I can be.

 

I consider that being sissy is something different as being a bad lover (which is my case). But I respect your decision to be the best sissy.

 

It started out as a way to spice up our sex life, but once I was locked in a true device, I was hooked!
To me it feels so natural to be locked. It's almost like I was destined for this. I love being in a chastity device whether my key is controlled by someone or not. It seems only right and proper that I remain locked!

 

I am in chastity because my wife/keyholder finds me much more attentive to her needs and wants when “her” penis is locked and controlled by her and her alone.
I no longer touch myself or orgasm unless she gives her approval.
She absolutely loves that control.

 

I love how I can surrender control to a female. The thrill is very exciting. I also enjoy the contrast and power dynamic, where being a man who is seemingly powerful and in charge is actually being caged and humiliated for my small penis. This really turns me on. I'm just into CBT and ballbusting, so I see chastity as a prolonged torture on my cock. I also love the idea of shrinking my dick gradually until it's no longer useful again and my mistress would just removed it (of course in real life this is hard to achieve).

 

I’m not on it 24/7 but Wife said it will get to that point. My reason is that I had brought it up about a year ago to Her and she agreed to take control.
After seeing how attentive I was to her and needing her more and more, needing her touch and eager to please her by opening doors, having her morning coffee ready etc..,
Well... She loved it and said I’d always be caged soon.
Plus her humiliation side came out and said since my dick doesn’t please her anymore like before it should be caged.

 

Pretty much the same for me too. When I am locked, I am more relaxed or something, it is hard to explain, but the desire to masturbate is way less. It doesn't bother me at all to wear it. How does your wife like it?

 

For my wife and I, it started out as something we did for fun when we first started dating (I didn't know much about it except that a previous girlfriend had wanted to try it but I was really scared to at that time lol). After playing around with it for fun my wife learned how much I really masturbated and how it lead to a lot of issues with us getting pregnant. After having two kids, getting a PA and a much more secure device she now has me locked up because it's just what she wants. She likes the additional attention and the physical and mental sensation it provides knowing I can't jerk off anymore and only she can allow me to have an orgasm. So mostly it's a control benefit for her now would be why I would guess.

 

Chastity keeps me from masturbating, which frees time for other things.

 

I was introduced to chastity play by a ProDomme and became a fan instantly.
I loved the sensation of desperation of not being able to get a full erection,of not being allowed to ejaculate,etc.
It was hard to convince my 100% vanilla Wife to try it, but after witnessing my change into submissiveness and enjoying all the benefits she learned to love it too!

 

To get our sex life back in sync. I am always horny and she likes sex every week or two. Like so many others I masturbated habitually which made me grouchy and inattentive . When she finally was in the mood I usually was not and pretty much worthless in satisfying her. The cage brought the spark back.

 

Well said. The cage regulates and controls our sex drive so we're ready when they are. It's a whole different ball game now when my wife removes my cage!

 

due my little penis we started in cuckold side, this become quite fast a FLR and i was gradually cut off from sex, at that point a start to masturbate too much, this avoid me to focus on her need ; so we started with chastity and we get so much benefit!

 

For me chastity brings me a sense of security and also controls my nasty habit of masturbation. For some reason the look of a steel cage feel so sexy together with the contact slight pressure as it’s a constant reminder.
The majority of the time in the past I am self locked as my wife did not truly come on board with it. However the last 5 weeks I have been constantly locked with her holding the key and she has acknowledged as she put it, I am “ Weak willed” and therefore now sees the benefit of me being in chastity. I have asked her if she is happy now hold the key more so and that her sexual needs are meet, which she confirmed with a smile on her face. Time will tell but hopefully this is a new chapter in our chastity lifestyle.

 

For me is started over 10 years ago with the idea of being controlled and wife was on board with it. Through the years since it has evolved into cuckhold relationship where she doesn't have the need to let me out of chastity. She usually has at least one boyfriend (if not more than one) who takes care of her sexual needs. I enjoy it even more since it is a deeper level of control

 

that is an interesting observation. I find masturbation puts me in a great, relaxed mood. It can put me to sleep at night yet it wakes me right up if I masturbate in the morning.

 

Removes your cage? What a rare experience!!!

 

I think there are a number of us here that actually have pretty active sex lives whose wives enjoy sex. My wife loves it when she is in the mood only and when I have not masturbated. She told me I was pretty worthless back before she locked me.

 

Because that's how it should be

 

Mrs Chaste finds the Strap on so much more "reliable". And enjoys keeping me "gagging for it". So endless months locked 24/7 is the norm in our house!

 

My wife put me into chastity in order to avoid having sex with me and to control me which she relishes. Well I don't care that much if we don't have sex for a long time because i'm not particularly sexually attracted to her now. Although I do know one thing if she releases me from it she is going to have a very hard getting me back into it.

 

buildup, then why are you willingly in chastity ? One of the points of chastity is to enforce fidelity between you and her. I'm of the mind that I would do anything in my power to keep my Keyholder happy, healthy and cared for, for as long as I live. I don't change my mind about her because it's not what I imaged it to turnout to; That's life. Adapt, change with it, overcome problems, communicate with her, In other words MAN UP kid!!