Does Chastity Permanently Make Your Wife More Dominant?

Do you want to be in this relationship dynamic?

 

I fully understand that, and I’ve been there. She may truely not desire sexual activity during certain times. We must trust and respect what our partners tell us.

Over time, I learned that answers are sometimes modified by what someone thinks others would want or what society dictates. You absolutely must respect what she says, but understand that it might take improved trust and communication before she feels comfortable sharing certain things with you.

 

That is the question, isn't it?

He's got a straight-out power struggle going on with his wife over sex and chastity. Now, some people really like that kind of wrestling. (That's not a snarky remark). They get turned on by the struggle itself, whether or not they win or lose.

But that's a complicated situation. "Good" struggle can quickly slide into "bad" struggle.

 

Do you enjoy playing the game?

 

Yowza. Hard to know exactly what to do with that. "I don't like playing football, except for the part where my opponent grinds my face in the mud."

Emotional masochists are a unique bunch

 

You keep coming back to "after about 10 days this chastity thing works better for us than non-chastity." Seems the answer is for her to just keep you locked "in training" and dispense with the recurrent struggles.

 

They enjoy the struggles.

 

By showing her your submissive side it flipped a switch deep in her mind that you are a beta male and that she needs to take charge. It’s possible that while she still loves you, she may not feel that you are worthy of entering her most sacred place. Many women are only attracted to dominant men will lose interest if the man lets her dominate him. It’s not politically correct but it is what it is.

Sexual attraction is a very primal thing and is ruled by eons of natural selection and survival of the fittest. For most women someone who is sexually attractive is someone who is worthy of breeding with. Unlike men, the consequences of childbearing are very taxing which is why women are much more picky about who they allow in their vagina.

 

MIstress has instructed me to write.You're last sentence is the tellingly line. Presumably you find it easier to follow your Wife's orders when in chastity, if so you need to talk to her and explain how beneficial it is to keep you caged if that's what you need. The problem, If indeed it is you may find is that the time you're free becomes less and less. Here's hoping you get your relationship sorted quickly

 

My madam has always been permanently dominant!