May have been outed tonight

You're right. Don't say anything, because you don't know what she felt or thought. No matter how world wise she is she may have thought your pocket moved and she touched a key fob. She may not even have noticed. If you bring it up you're being a perv- or she might think so. If she brings it up that's a different story.

 

even if she had a contact
can she think about a CB ?
not sure
don't say anything
she'd be ashamed to speak about it
and to explain why her hand was on your CB, even for ne second

 

Say nothing. If something needed to be said (and I don't think it does) then it would be better if it came from your wife.

 

Another good point- bringing it up reminds her that she touched his crotch which, even accidentally, could prove embarrassing.

 

Should be interesting the next time you're together!

 

Certainly don't say a thing. And enjoy the fact she may or may not have noticed/guessed what was going on in the underwear department! I wonder if she had felt something hard (pun intended), would she ask your better half what it was? And would said better half tell her?

 

I agree, say nothing, and if she mentions it and you want it to remain secret, just say it was your keys on your pocket.

 

People on this forum might think chastity device first in the situation you describe. "Vanilla" people won't.. esp if they never came across male chastity before. Instead she probably wondered why you had an athletic cup on or, worse, what you were trying to steal from the house by hideing it in you pants!

 

Over the years, I've been similarly pressed, bumped, pikes, and prodded by my wife's friends and coworkers. A few times I thought that there was no way they could have missed something. In a couple of cases, a general firmness could be chalked up to an erection. In others? Nothing has ever been said.

Your best approach is to never volunteer information unless directly asked.

Edit: I've already though ahead on this, and decided that my own approach, if directly outed, would be to laugh it off and explain that after 30 years together, Mrs Edge and I were just trying some things to keep the sparks going. And then leave it at that.

 

Well I'm very much of the opinion that it's our secret and hopefully it will stay that way. But if any one discovered it we are not hurting anyone else so it doesn't matter! To be honest though as has been pointed out more than once most vanilla people would have no idea! I'd never heard of male chastity until I literally "stumbled" on it by mistake, (covered in other posts!).

 

If you are in any doubt if you could get your wife to go for coffee and and see if she ask any questions Apart from that just put it on Facebook.

 

I worry about this kind of thing some times, it would be good to hear what the results where when you next meet. Did she notice from an accidental touch?

I have a few 'huggy' friends and I worry they might notice when we meet too, I don't think its as big as a concern as your story for noticing but does not stop me worrying when it happens .

 

Let it be a mystery... If Friend is really curious she will probably bring subject up...or maybe ask your wife.

 

I think it is pretty unanimous to leave sleeping dogs lie. She probably feels awkward having touched you down there anyway, so I bet noshing gets said. For me, if it was a friend I knew for a while and felt close to, if outed, I'd just tell the truth. I think chastity, especially, when your wife holds the key is a kind of sexy kink, that could be accepted by another female. At the least, if gives you some interesting fantasy,

 

An interesting fantasy that the "two of you share"

 

Could have beey your keys in your pocket!

 

I wouldn't worry, it's nothing to be embarrassed about and it is private between you and your wife / KH.

 

Be proud of your device. If she says something, confirm her suspicions, explain how you have a rich and healthy sex life. Refer her to your KH for more info, viewing etc. Could be she has an interest in locking up her insignificant other too. It's you, embrace yourself.

 

maybe she really likes the thought ... I mean if she was trying to touch your crotch well she probably likes something ... girls talk ... put it that way

 

She probly already knows

 

Happened to me twice, once a colleague, once a similar situation to yourself. No funny looks, nothing said. Tom Allen has probably hit the nail on the head, they probably weren't paying attention and have t realised what happened.