My owner found that she could pull me out of the cage, and now thinks the cage is too loose. I know that I can’t go smaller with the base ring, and don’t think shortening the cage would help this issue. That leaves shortening the gap as the only non-PA variable. I’m at the standard 3/8” gap. Do any of you know what risks could be involved in shortening the gap?
When you say pulling you out do you mean pulling your penis out the back of the tube? Or pulling the entire cage off complete? if you are pulling out the back other than spikes to cause enough pain that you don’t want to pull out I don’t see many options for the all trap style device. Maybe a Prince Albert piercing and anchor it to the cage?
Yes, pulling out of the back only. I agree re a PA but she doesn’t want to go that route. I think shortening the gap would make it a bit snugger overall as well. Two birds, one stone kinda thing.
From friction or digging in under the cage? I’ve experienced burning with plastic cages or with too small of a base ring, but I think that’s different from what you’re suggesting.
No harm in trying. Mark has instructions to open and close the gap. Close it up and see how it feels. Not comfortable open it back up.
It's hard to explain. In my experience, if my gap is too small I get a slight burning and dull pain that increases with wear time. Also sometimes the balls will turn blue. You can manually change the gap space with a vice. Mark will give you instructions.
It might, but in my opine the spongy nature of penial tissue is pretty resilient in a way that will let you slide out of almost anything. Barring a full belt of course! At the end of the day you need to remember that just because you can back out it doesn’t mean you should. And most likely don’t have permission to do so either! Lol
Thanks for the feedback, guys. Yes, I’ve never backed out on my own - she was just slightly irritated that she could get it out that way. Ha, go figure.
My opinion also. I don't believe changing the gap will stop you from pulling out. Total security requires a peircing.
I can understand that I felt utterly dejected the day I discovered I spent nearly $400 on something to stop me from masturbating only to pull right out the back. The illusion was gone and I had to come to grips with the fact that it was up to me to hold up my end of the bargain and that the new shiny steel trap was just symbol of my commitment. Haven’t pulled out and jerked it since. It’s the commitment that matters the most with chastity for me. Good luck!
First of all: there is quite an amount of devices where one might be able to pull out - but there's none to my knowledge where you could slide IN afterwards... so you can't do that undetected! And: as there is quite an amount of flesh and blood (= vessels) to be fed through the gape, it's definetely no good idea to reduce that needed space - or else your blue balls will turn black!
The gap is probably fine if your testicles don't pull out. You will create more friction and maybe keep the cage closer to your body but eventually the cage will move especially if your scrotum gets warm, thin and soft. I have a pretty short penis and my concern was that my penis might come out on it's own just from movement throughout the day. I never had that happen though. I can get my penis out but I have to really work at it. How do you know that you cannot go smaller on the ball ring?
I already moved down a ring size, and am pretty experienced on ring sizes from my previous cage (both what’s too small or too big.) This is just a minor tweak on sizing, as the device has been perfect. We just know my body evolves, but we haven’t tinkered with the gap spacing.
I personally prefer a tight (small diameter ring) It gives less room to be able to pull my penis out and creates more friction which keeps the cage from sliding down my balls. Closing the gap also creates more friction. It's easy enough to change and try out. You can either put the cage in a vise or lay the cage on a hard surface flat on the ball ring and then put a board or something hard over the cage end and push down. Depending on the cage I was able to change the gap by just pressing down with the palm od my hand.