Wife agreed to try supervised orgasms

Well after trying flr on again and off again coupled with chastity for many years with my wife, she’s now agreed to trying chastity with only supervised orgasms. We haven’t been intimate at all for a very long time and she asked me what I would need to have some sort of happiness with her control without her having to take a ton of time. I told her that I can provide whatever she wants in the way of me pleasuring her but all I would need is her to be strict and humiliating when I’m allowed to jerk off. I told her I want it to be dehumanizing so we decided that we will have the same scenario when I’m allowed to get off. I’ll get naked and put on a collar and leash, she’ll stay dressed and have me crawl to the corner where I’ll have two minutes to get myself off while she holds the leash and watches. I’m extremely excited to start trying something again! Hopefully we figure it out this time.

 

We’re not sure yet. The past year with moving and all sorts of other stresses have really taken a toll on any play or intimacy. We’re going to start here and see where it leads rather than have a master plan like we’ve had before. It all becomes too much with our busy schedules. This is going to be every other day to start and only will take 2 minutes....well three to four if you count taking my clothes off and getting the collar and leash on. It’s easily doable and will give us a baseline to grow from. We’re going to start every other day to ease me into chastity again and not hurt my prostate like I’ve done before and slowly extend the time. In the past we’ve had a system where on Saturday evenings we would discuss what chores didn’t do, how patient I was and how much I used swear words and then she would punish me the amount she thought was appropriate with a leather strap. I can see us going back to that soon but I think we’re just going to take it easy for now. Tonight is the first night so we’ll see how it goes!

 

Well last night ended up being the first night. It was about time to go to bed and I was getting some work done on my laptop when she said if I wanted to do anything I should get in the bedroom and get ready. I walked in the bedroom and she followed me in and shut the door. She stood there watching me as I took my clothes off and got the collar and leash out of the dresser. She had a serious look while she was watching me, I smiled and asked her what. She said just waiting, so I hurried up and put the collar on and walked over to her. I handed her the leash and said I was very excited, she said she could see that as she looked down at my dick that was rock hard. I knelt on the floor in front of her and she pulled on the leash and told me to get closer to the corner. I crawled over to the corner and started rubbing myself when she stopped me and told me she hadn’t told me to start yet. I asked her if she would take off her socks so I could see her feet. She rolled her eyes as I said or you don’t have to, do whatever you want. She took off her socks, looked at her watch and said you have two minutes. I started stroking myself quickly, it usually takes me a long time to get off. The whole time I looked down at her feet. She told me I only had one minute left. The next thing she said to me was that she knew I couldn’t do it in two minutes. Within a few seconds of her saying that I asked her if I could cum. She said yes and o shot it all over the floor. I was making sure I got it all out when she said she didn’t want to watch me squeeze it all out so she put the leash on my shoulder and walked out of the room. I cleaned all the cum off the floor and put my clothes back on. Later I told her that was great and she said sarcastically that it was so much fun for her. Now we’ll have to see where it goes from here.

 

Wife just left for a week long business trip. I asked her before she walked out the door if I could please have 2 minutes, she told me I just did the other day and that I’m a greedy pig. I took her bags out to the car and she left.

 

Well so far things are working out well!! We’ve done it just about every other day, sometimes I get to look at her feet and sometimes she has me do it in the corner. It now takes me exactly 2 minutes! I’m hoping she starts giving me some humiliating comments but so far it’s been limited to time updates and telling me it’s gross when I cum, I get so hard every time we do it instantly. She wants to have me put on my cage and go down on her more often but she’s been problems with her period because she recently came off birth control. She’s going to the doctors soon to fix it and she’s been reading a book about how to train a slave. I’m so happy with the progress!

 

Owning and training a male slave by Ingrid Bellemare

 

A quick update, things have been going great! She’s changed it from every other day to now maybe once or twice per week. Tomorrow we’re going to step up our relationship to more of a slave/owner scenario. We’re going to hammer out the details but it looks like we’re going back to me doing all the chores in the house, going back to punishments for things not done, we also are going to formally say that her body is off limits to me PIV wise and she’s interested in at least talking about cuckolding but probably not actually doing it. She’s also going to start using a cane or the dressage whip to train me to get my time jerking off in the corner down to 1 minute. I’ve also installed some anchors in the closet at her request so my collar can be attached to the floor as kind of a makeshift punishment cage. Big day tomorrow , I hope it goes well!

 

Another update that I think the dressage whip is the most intense pain I’ve ever felt and it takes minimal effort for her and makes no noise. It’s an evil tool lol

 

Yes we’ve used the anchors. The one in the closet is used for kind of a time out area when she isn’t happy about something but doesn’t want to do anything more drastic. We also have one attached to the base of a large rolling wardrobe that’s in the middle of a room. We use that one to fasten my collar to so my face is close to the ground and use Velcro exercise bands around my wrists with a lanyard to attack them behind my back like cuffs. That so far has been the position she puts me in when she uses the dressage whip. We go over a list of what I did chore wise and what I didn’t do once a week, that’s usually when she uses the whip.

She did read the whole book and thought it was too extreme but as someone said it did open up conversations about what we both liked about it and how much of that we’d want in our life. Things are moving slowly kink wise but I’m now doing all the chores. A couple months ago I would’ve never thought we would be thus far so I’m extremely happy with the progress.