Wife Enjoying Our New Chastity Life

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    #51 lockedhusband11, Sep 4, 2019
    haha! I just remember how much I love that movie. Michael Palin just has the funniest expressions.

    Thankyou! I can't quite believe it. I keep asking myself if I'm really wearing a chastity cage and feeling it to make sure it's really happening. And her reactions have blown me away with how much she is open to explore. But the best thing by far is seeing how much happier she is, with me, with her new exciting sex life, and we were close and loving before, but this has brought us to an even deeper place. I'm still trying to process that my wife and I are going to buy something that she can use to punish me with.
     
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    #52 Blue00, Sep 4, 2019
    For some reason that scene is one of my wife’s favorites, but she has yet to try spanking me. Similar to your wife’s reaction, my wife has been very firm that I will NEVER be spanking her. (I didn’t even ask. Somehow that reaction was spontaneous from her when I introduced the cage for me.) Maybe I need to use that Monty Python line in bed one day and see what happens.
     
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    #53 lockedhusband11, Sep 4, 2019
    Well I mentioned it a couple of times as a joke and when it came to our first bedroom play with me caged I realized that she totally picked up on the fact that I really wanted it. Of course she did. Wives have incredible intuition
     
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    #54 Rectrix, Sep 4, 2019
    This closeness and deep intimacy is the core and goal of chastity. Make sure you let that closeness infuse your whole marriage not just your sex life. When she sees that you're a better husband 24/7 is when she will accept and adopt chastity for real and let her confidence and dominance grow.
     
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    #55 MissBrody, Sep 4, 2019
    Seeee I told you if you just talked about some of these things you would be surprised how she would react. You are getting her kinkiness to start to come out.
     
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    #56 lockedhusband11, Sep 4, 2019
    You can say that again, the floodgates may have been opened. The shopping list grows as she suggested a sex swing last night. I may have to let her know that many Women in chastity like to have their man wear a strapon, which would work very well with her swing. She may be going faster into all this than me!
    Somehow I don't think I'll be slowing anything down
     
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    #57 slave_m278, Sep 5, 2019
    There is a vibrator called the orgasmistron II. so powerful you will need two hands to hold it.
    My Ex said it rattled her teeth.
     
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    #58 Rectrix, Sep 5, 2019
    Keep it simple. There's a reason the Hitachi Maic Wand is legendary.
     
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    #59 MsTara, Sep 5, 2019
    I have my man wear a mouth dildo which I love to ride.
     
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    #60 lockedhusband11, Sep 5, 2019
    We're yet to see how much my wife enjoys my humiliation. I welcome it of course. For now I'll be suggesting the strap-on for practical purposes. She can enjoy a large dildo and me thrusting as often as she wants whole still keeping me locked. She already sees many more benefits to me being locked and more disappointments when I'm not. That's my pitch anyway
     
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    #61 Jail Bird, Sep 5, 2019
    The go to tool for my wife. She prefers it now. I have been trained to love it as well. The Wand is awesome!!
     
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    #62 demale, Sep 5, 2019
    I think it's essential that you proceed at her pace. It's important that your wife dominates you because she wants to, not because she feels that she needs to indulge you.
     
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    #63 cagedjon, Sep 6, 2019
    Oh the benefits of Chastity (enforced male chastity that is). So happy for you and your wife. Our journey was very similar and still is progressing.
     
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    #64 Miffy, Sep 6, 2019
    Very excited for you both-stay locked for her!-x
     
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    #66 lockedhusband11, Sep 8, 2019
    Well, things are moving fast. But we are both enjoying it so I guess it's all good. Tonight we went online and bought a magic wand vibe, a dildo much longer than my cock, and a 3 ply leather slapper. She especially enjoyed taking about how she wanted a big dildo because she liked big cocks and made her enthusiasm when she saw them very apparent. When she saw one like mine she said "that one's a bit like yours. Oh no. We won't be getting one like that". When we were looking at whips and slappers she asked if that was truly what I wanted, "because I'll take it too far and really beat you. I know I will". I've also pretty much been told that I've got a lot to do before any unlocking will be happening. Looking like weeks rather than days, for sure. I can't believe how into this she is. We were both totally hiding our kinky sides from each other all this time
     
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    #67 Chaste J., Sep 8, 2019
    Surprising just how many people discover just how kinky they and their partners are! I'm sure most people never have the chance to express their true inner selves! And just how many I wonder voice their disapproval whilst thinking "wish that was me!".
     
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    #68 lockedhusband11, Sep 8, 2019
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    I know. I 'm so so lucky and we've always been good together and have such a great relationship but could never really find ourselves comfortable enough to communicate about sex. I guess all it took was one thing and now we are finding easier and easier to feel ok to confess these secrets and take on these roles.
    The most surprising thing last night was the penis humiliation. IT was so matter of fact and she didn't do it in a way that was like lets act kinky and I'll give you some SPH. Which made it so real, and She knows what She's doing and truly wanted me to feel emasculated. I'm an average sized dude, for reference.
     
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    #69 bondinchas, Sep 9, 2019
    She may well be going faster than you..
    Do you really think that it'll be her in the swing with you wearing the strapon? :confused:o_O:rolleyes:
     
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    #70 lockedhusband11, Sep 9, 2019
    Well I'm not sure if She's aware of the need for milking yet, but it's getting to the time when I might have to mention it and alternatively ruined orgasms. She won't be freaked out by that but who knows how comfortable She would be with penetrating my butt. I welcome it if She wants to try it. I'm all about doing what She wants and discarding anything She doesn't
     
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    #71 MsTara, Sep 21, 2019


    But this still give you the power as you are fucking her.

    With the mouth dildo I'm in charge as I'm riding him. All he can do is watch as I move up and down on it - he is passive in the whole affair while I take the pleasure[/
     
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    #72 lockedhusband11, Sep 21, 2019
    i always imagined my wearing a strapon as feeling emasculating for me and my Wife choosing that She wanted that pleasure and stimulation whilst still keeping me denied and controlled. It never occurred to me that I would feel at all dominant.
    Believe me, there's no power left in this relationship for me and She is as aware as You are about what constitutes power and topping from the bottom.
    We have a catalogue from a BDSM store which we look through now and again. I can point out the face dildo to Her
     
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    #73 lockedhusband11, Sep 21, 2019
    Also, our story has since moved to the Journals forum where there's plenty more been happening than what is written here if anyone would like to read. ThankYou
     
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    #74 b_quark, Sep 23, 2019
    This actually seems to be the biggest reason my wife doesn't like the strap-on anymore. For years it was a regular part of our sex life, more often than not the only penetration she would allow. But at some point she began to favor laying over me in a 69 position and grinding on my face and then ordering me to fluff her dildo before sliding it into her and continuing to lick. Very often all I am required to do is hold out my tongue and hold the dildo still while she rocks herself forward and backward, fucking the huge cock and simultaneously grinding her pussy on my tongue/nose/entire face.

    I asked her about the change, and she confirmed that the strap-on isn't realistic enough for her. She doesn't want to have sex with me, and she doesn't want me to feel like I am man enough to have sex with her or anyone else. She said it's just silly watching me going through the motions of sex or standing behind her holding her hips and thrusting when in truth I am inadequate and incapable.
     
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