Wife Enjoying Our New Chastity Life (Journal)

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    https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/wife-enjoying-our-new-chastity-life.34101/

    I decided to move the above thread to a journal as it appears I will be writing so much , so this feels like the better place for my daily updates.

    As I was kneeling in front of my wife and massaging her legs and feet I asked "Please may I be unlocked so I can clean?"

    She looked at me with an expression that said "you're up to something" and wagged her finger "Oh no. You'll be up there fiddling with yourself"

    "I wont, I promise. I just need to clean, it's been a while since I've cleaned it out properly"

    "Mmmm, ok. But I'll be watching"
    As she went to fetch the key from her hiding place I stayed with the feeling of having just asked my Wife for the first time if I may unlock my penis from it's cage so I can clean it
    That's quite a humbling and emasculating moment, although not the most strongly of either of those that I've ever felt.

    After I washed the device and myself with my Wife looking in on me periodically, I put it back on with a smaller base ring which I'm so happy to say I can finally fit into after such a short time. I was worried a little about security but after putting this ring on Ive given it a hard pull and i'm in there like a chinese finger trap. Stuck tight.
     
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    I had prepared for tonight for another chance to give my wife a full body massage. She had hinted at Friday being a night of sexy fun. I made dinner and we watched a show on the couch together while I massaged her feet. I asked if She would like me to give her a full body massage and she said "No. All you want is to get perverted" I replied that honestly I just wanted to do something nice for her. A little later she got frustrated at a household problem I had not taken care of. She has not once ever mentioned how long I am to spend locked before a possible release. Talking about this chore I neglected she got strict in tone and said "If I see this again it'll be another three weeks in there" and pointed at my crotch. I still don't know how long a sentence that three weeks is added to.
    I'm currently driving across town to buy some required things to take care of that chore
     
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    A few nights ago my wife mentioned we are going to hang out with her female friend and her friend's husband. I joked that maybe she should tell her friend about chastity devices, she might want to lock up her husband.
    My wife thought this was extremely funny and said "Oh, yes! She already banned him from watching porn by putting a childlock on their internet. If she locked him up he would be screwed!"
    A few days later she was texting her friend and I asked if she had mentioned 'our new arrangement' to her.
    My Wife replied "Oh yeah. I forgot I wanted to tell her about that"
    The friend in question is very pretty and they are always laughing so hard together about everything
     
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    Looks like you two are going 100mph into this. Good stuff though.
     
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    It feels like a good pace. I've decided never to mention it or ask for anything (and I mean anything) and we do spend most of the time like nothing has changed although she is making a few small requests here and there and there are moments like last night when she made her first ultimatum about adding more time. It feels very natural because being a little verbally chastising about chores etc is not new to her, but what IS new is my complete and instant compliance and Her knowledge that She owns my cock
     
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    From my other post related to our journey (I'm going to be keeping everything on this journal from now on to prevent double posting) - "Well, things are moving fast. But we are both enjoying it so I guess it's all good. Tonight we went online and bought a magic wand vibe, a dildo much longer than my cock, and a 3 ply leather slapper. She especially enjoyed taking about how she wanted a big dildo because she liked big cocks and made her enthusiasm when she saw them very apparent. When she saw one like mine she said "that one's a bit like yours. Oh no. We won't be getting one like that". When we were looking at whips and slappers she asked if that was truly what I wanted, "because I'll take it too far and really beat you. I know I will". I've also pretty much been told that I've got a lot to do before any unlocking will be happening. Looking like weeks rather than days, for sure. I can't believe how into this she is. We were both totally hiding our kinky sides from each other all this time"

    Today we were having a friendly argument about something when my Wife said "Remember who wins every argument from now on? Every argument from the past, the present and the future?"
    I said nothing
    She looked away from me to the TV and said "Damn, that must be a bad feeling knowing that"
     
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    The public verbal chastisements have started. The shaming and emasculating comments for everyone to hear at the grocery store, putting me in my place by all the people by the cash registers then telling me "Now take the trolley over there and stand in line!"
    At home tonight I get this unbearable need to get out of my cage as my balls are full to the brim and tingling.
    I kneel beside her at her feet and ask "What happens if I come to you desperate and ask to get out?"
    "Oh you can't get out" She says, matter of factly
    "No I'm just asking what would the consequence be?"
    "Well, you would get more weeks added. Are you asking to be let out?"
    "No!....no. I just didn't know the rule"
    "Asking to get out means more weeks. So does whining"
    "I don't even know how many weeks I have already. What if you caught me pulling out in secret. I never would, but, what would the consequence be?"
    "I would make you wear the tightest ring"
    Her dominance makes me incredibly aroused and I feel my cage strain and pull away from my body tightening my balls to a shade of blue
    I fall on my hands and knees feeling it in my abdomen just like it feels when you are kicked in the groin
    She laughs "I don't think it's supposed to hurt like that is it?" a little concern is there
    "yep. It's fine" I gasp. Reassuring her
    She laughs again, then takes and opportunity to spank me hard on with her hand a few times on each cheek, harder each time. My second, if very short spanking of the week.
    "Now get out of here" She says as I waddle away to get some ice
     
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    Don't get hurt, though... If the ring is too tight...
     
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    ThankYou! But I think I found a perfect snug fit finally. Balls turning a shade of blue was merely a poetic exaggeration. I'm all good
     
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    Thank you for sharing its been wonderful reading your posts and your journey into the D/s flr lifestyle.
    Its always wonderful reading about a Domme coming into their own and owning the lifestyle.

    For me it was different because my KH and me discussed a lot of the kink stuff long before we got into a relationship.
     
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    Thankyou! I'm enjoying updating this diary and I'm still in disbelief at how far things have come in such a short time. This week will be spent mostly being of service to my Goddess Wife, expecting nothing in return, and waiting for our package of Dildo/Magic Wand/Leather Slapper to be delivered. I imagine when it does She'll want it put aside with a possibility of taking them out at the weekend. I do hope She enjoys Her new cock. I'm sure i'll see Her body react to it in ways that it never could with my little thing
     
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    Tonight I was stood in front of my Goddess Wife with my back to Her, She was sitting, i'm in my boxers, when She pulls them down and begins to spank me. HARD. Alternating cheeks as she goes, really giving it Her all.
    "Is this what he wants?!!" She asks
    The sting increases until I almost cry out, then She stops and says it's hurting Her hand.
    She laughs as I walk away holding my cheeks with my hands and I feel them begin to radiate with warmth as I strain swollen and tight in my cage.
    All I can think of is that I finally know for sure that She is oh so capable and desirous of administering a spanking I wont forget and that a 3 ply leather slapper is in the mail and due to arrive any day.
     
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    This evening I'm on the couch as my Goddess Wife is walking by and as She passes I touch the hem of Her pencil skirt and She whirls around
    "Get back!" She shouts, but smirking, a faux-rage "No!" She says wagging a finger "Never! Do you hear me?!" Her tone is getting less pretend. Less funny. "This ass is not for you!" She's serious now. "You've got a lot of chores to do if you ever want to get in here! If you ever want to get out of there" She points at my crotch and clicks away loudly on Her heels and I feel a wave of emasculation as it's clear to us both now who is in charge.
    This is no game to Her now, and once the large replacement cock arrives tomorrow along with Her new powerful vibrator, the incentives for Her to release me will be drastically minimalised, perhaps only to my complete and utter submission. But the more emasculated I become, the more she may want to keep me locked
     
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    Last night my Goddess Wife was very tired from work. I gave Her a full body massage but She remained clothed in Her pajamas and i was naked. She forbid me from touching any sexual areas and at one point I was straddling Her back and my cage was touching Her. She said "I can feel You on me. Get your nasty little weiner off my back" It wasn't said in a mean way. Then She sent me downstairs to fetch Her purse which i carried to Her on my shoulder like a Woman would. Just me and my nasty weiner, little cage and handbag.
     
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    It's cage cleaning night so i hover around Her trying to bring up the subject
    It's hard to get used to having to ask if i may clean my penis
    "Please may i be unlocked so i can clean?"
    i burn with shame
    "No" She wags a finger
    "Please? i promise i wont jerk off. I swear"
    Burning
    "Ok. Go downstairs so i can get the key from it's place then i'll call you to come up and be unlocked"
    i do and She does
    "Get in the shower. I'll be peeking in periodically to make sure there are no pleasures going on in there. If i find you're playing with yourself there'll be....ohhhh....let me see.....you'll be locked up for another three months with no release"
    "Three months?!" i exclaim. She laughs a little
    "Yes"
    i wash and beg my little thing to stay soft but it betrays me and swells and it feels strange
    When I'm out and dry i spend a long time trying to get everything locked back up. My Wife walks in to the bedroom where I'm laboring and puts Her warm hand on my cold cock which is wet from ice cubes.
    She flicks the end of Her tongue in my mouth
    " You've been out for far too long now. Time we get you locked back up"
    "i'm trying. i can't get it to shrink back down enough"
    She strokes me and Her fingers gracefully pass over my scrotum
    "I don't think this will help it go down, do you?" She asks quietly
    "No. That's not helping at all" i'm breathing heavier
    "Don't be too long" She says as She walks away with a huge grin
     
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    I'm cleaning the house top to bottom again today. I'm already coming to associate sexual arousal with cleaning and massaging my Goddess Wife. These things never turned me on before but now i'm naked and locked and dripping with that tingling of arousal desperate on my crotch, the servitude i'm carrying out getting me more and more turned on.
    My hope is that She will come to expect and eventually demand a very clean house at all times.
    I will start making Her breakfast in bed on Sundays

    Last night as She was relocking me after my cleaning i asked Her if She knew how long i had been locked up for.
    "Hmm, is this, like, day 7?"
    "It's, um, actually day 15"
    She laughs "Oh. Well. I don't know"

    After cleaning I had changed to the smaller ring again to see if I could tolerate it but i'm woken in the middle of the night with an unbearable discomfort so i have to wake Her. She's angry and gives me the key and returns to bed. I change rings and don't dare touch myself and return to bed where She asks, with a short temper
    "Where's the key?"
    "It's on the nightstand"
    "I'm not having you playing with yourself all day tomorrow while I'm at work"
    I put my arm round Her
    "You really don't want me to jerk off do you?" I ask
    "No. No more jerking off for you"
     
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    She comes downstairs with a big smile, giggling a little.
    "Oh he's getting very desperate now. He's been folding my panties" She's laughing
    "I can not do that in future if you'd prefer"
    "No no. I like it" She says "But you're still very naughty"
    "I'm feeling very subservient" I say
    "You ARE very subservient" She replies "Maybe tomorrow night if you've been very good I'll rethink your sentence"
     
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    Today we're in Target buying sanitary pads and I'm standing by my Wife as She browses the shelves where they are displayed. She looks great today in her heels and dress.
    She picks up a package of pads and goes to hand them to me then there's a pause where I can see that She second-guesses Her self.
    " I can carry them" I offer
    She laughs like it's a ridiculous proposition but hands them to me and we walk. We are moving down the main aisle of the store and it's very busy, when I look up and there's a Female member of staff who is attending to something facing our way down the aisle, and She is laughing so hard at something but I can't make out what it could be and I'm certain it's at the sight of this man walking behind his extremely beautiful Wife, carrying a large package of sanitary pads for Her.
    We get to the end of the store and She takes them back from me and says
    "Ok. You can have your dignity back......temporarily"
    Was She embarrassed for me or embarrassed Herself?

    Later in the car home we are talking at how productive i've become with work and I tell Her that when i used to jerk off i would lose motivation and get a little depressed. I explain that if I can somehow be made to cum while still in the cage that that wont happen and I'll retain the same mindset and all the positive things we are enjoying will remain, but if I cum with a full erection and orgasm we'll lose it all and have to start again.
    I look over and She has a finger on Her chin, deep in thought
    "Hmmmm" She says "That's very very interesting"
    "What?" I ask "What are you smiling about?"
    "Oh. Nothing" She says "Just my own secret private little thoughts"
    She continues to smile a broad smile
     
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    my Mistress Wife presses Her body close to mine in the Kitchen and we start to talk about sex.
    "Aww. I thought I had a big cock coming in the mail" She says
    "It's coming tomorrow" I reply "I want to make sure You have intense orgasms"
    "And you get the whip" She says
    Then I'm on my knees and her feet are resting on me as I massage Her legs and She tells me how much She pities me being locked up.
    " Do you like having this power over me?" I ask
    She nods
    I can feel gallons of precum collect and drip from my cage
    In bed She feels my cage, teasing it and I hump the air until She turns Her back and presses Her panties into my crotch and I grind against Her ass and make sounds of an unreal desperation
    Panting, I beg " please let me eat Your pussy"
    "It's too late for all that. Time for sleep"
     
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    Our package has arrived
    8 inch realistic skin dildo, magic wand, leather slapper
    Opening the box my wife is very excited. We both are. She pulls out the dildo first and we feel it together and remark on it's realness and size and i hold it side by side with my caged cock which is a quarter of the length of the huge dick. She laughs loud then takes the dildo from me and points it at my face and says "Suck it bitch!" before laughing even more. I can't tell if She would actually want to see me suck it. Then She holds it against Her like it's Her own cock and I don't know if She has any inclination to be the one with the dick doing the fucking. Time will tell
    We put it back and She says that Friday night will be play night but first i ask if we could please just see how the leather spanker feels, i'm dying with curiousity.
    So we walk to the couch where i get on all fours and my shorts are pulled down to expose my ass and dangling caged little thing. The short whip stings me many times. She doesn't hit too hard, but She keeps going much longer than i imagined She would and some smacks almost make me cry out but we stop before we really get into it.
    "That's enough slave"
    She's never called me that before. Is She joking? Was "suck it bitch" joking?
    My ass is firey and painted with red marks in the shape of our new toy.
     
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    That's the fun part :)
     
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    We missed play night last night as She was too busy, and as we lay in bed She said "Poor neglected husband. All locked up with no release"
    " I was aching really bad tonight too"
    "Aww. Were you?"
    "Yes"
    "Well, on Sunday maybe we can look into getting some of that released. We'll have to find a good way to do it without you going back to the old you"
    "Yes. And tomorrow is cleaning day for me" She works all day Saturdays so i clean the house top to bottom.
    "Yes it is" She confirms
    "He's just like your little housewife now"
    She laughs at this and agrees
    I take my opportunity and say "Tomorrow he's going to clean all day in his Wife's panties"
    "Oh pleeeaasee do!" She says
    "Which ones?"
    "Hmmm, ones with stripes"
    "I didn't know you had ones with stripes"
    We talk about something else

    This was the first mention of me possibly wearing panties by either of us
     
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    Tomorrow night is set for play night. This will mean my first real whipping and the first time I get to bring my now dominant Wife to orgasm with a huge dildo while i remain locked.
    Tonight, however, there is a surprise preview. i enter the bedroom from the bathroom, naked but for my cage. My Wife, on seeing me, makes a shrinking motion with Her fingers towards my cage. We both laugh and I ask if the cage makes me look small. She says yes and that its shrinking into nothing.
    Then She approaches with a wicked look in a Her eye and hands behind Her back and I notice that the leather slapping whip is missing from its place on the nightstand. She brings it out from behind Her back for me to see and I'm quickly on the bed on all fours, my bottom presented to Her.
    The cracking sounds are loud and the pain is searing and sharp. The stings don't get a chance to fully linger before a worse lash is administered.
    It hurts . Oh fuck. It hurts more than I wanted it to hurt when i offered this plan, this idea of punishments with such a device.
    It's quite a realisation and the next whiplash has my head in my hands and a loud gasp leaves me.
    Then She walks away without a word.
    Later She tells me how much She enjoys it, how She's the Alpha of the house, how i will come to fear it
     
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    I swtiched to a smaller ring and after a couple of days and nights the chaffing becomes unbearable.
    I approach my Mistress/Wife and ask
    "Please may i be unlocked so i can switch to a larger ring? It's really beginning to chafe"
    Mistress/Wife glares at me with anger
    "Oh for goodness sake! I'm sick of having to deal with you and your little penis! I just want to cut it off and throw it out the window"
    i'm humiliated
    "if you want, we don't have to do chastity anymore and You could unlock me for good"
    "Ha! No way. You MUST be joking" She replies in disbelief

    After She unlocks me She gives me some sympathy at the redness of my skin and offers me a one night only pass to sleep without a cage. i'm reluctant to not have my cage on but She insists

    In the time before bed i notice my little cock try to get a weak erection. it's remarkably puny and it makes no attempt to get hard during my sleep. In the morning it makes further pathetic attempts and i honestly don't push for real hardness as i want to get back locked up as swiftly as possible
     
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    I’ve been enjoying reading your updates and the progress that you are making with your KH, but this latest update raises a red flag for me: any healthy BDSM relationship requires the dominant to still have your health and well-being as a high priority. A pleasure in “humiliation” is one thing, but please don’t let your health be ignored
     
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