I spent my first night caged up last night, I did get woken up by the first stirrings of an erection as my cage is an ultra short one... However when I took it off this morning, and left for work, it felt like I was still wearing it for a while. Is this normal?
Welcome and yes, it does take some getting used to when you take it off and put it on. Find a pace that works for you on how long you stay caged. Adjustments can vary depending on individuals.
It was never intended to be a full time thing, however having slept in it for one night, I am hoping I will be able to do longer and longer periods. I haven't yet worn it outside the house, I'm not doing this for the humiliation aspect, just the feeling of being constricted... I have no doubt that even though it wasn't the intention, within a few weeks it will be a full time affair!!
Thank you, I did notice after an hour or so it was back to normal. What I would say is that after having worn it most of this weekend, I am more aware of my cock when I'm not wearing it...
Well the day is almost over and I admit I can't wait to get home and be caged once more!!! Very nervous still about wearing it in public, but I'm not sure how many more uncaged days I can take!!
Forgot I had to work late tonight but at last I am now home and caged... With tube until bedtime. Then my second night wearing it overnight...
Great progress caged Dom! Funny how something that seems so obvious to you is not noticed by others. I think that is one of the most fun parts of a cage is that no one needs to know you are wearing it except you and your KH
Another night locked up... And slept all the way through. So if there were any night time erections, I never noticed. Being diabetic, I need the little yellow pills (much better than blue ones) to get fully hard anyway, so that probably works in my favour for once!!!
She's offered to look after the keys, but that's not a turn on for me. I don't like to give control to others, but I want to do things that subs do... Fortunately she's as weird as me, so we get on just fine!
The more I wear the cage though, the more into the whole idea I seem to get. I would like to try a longer period locked up, but I'm not yet aware of the implications as far as real life goes. What's the longest you've been locked for?
The longest was 3 months. Pretty much continuously, if I remember correctly, but that was years ago. With my current device, the longest has been two weeks.
I am sure that with a little playing with it you would love the idea of your sub wife being your keyholder. Now the million dollar question. Are you going to put your sub wife into chastity?
Oh heavens no.... We have a bedroom sub / dom relationship. Im not into 24/7 control at all. Her being in chastity really wouldn't do it for me at all!!