Hi Everyone. Richard here. Just this year my Wife has agreed to start locking me occasionally and has done so 3 times since June for varying times between 3 and 12 days so far. i enjoy the power exchange of being locked by my Wife. When She says "You need to lock up immediately and give me the keys" my heart skips and i jump to it. She is not dominant and prefers me unlocked but locks me because She knows I like it. She is not adverse to teasing me a bit though! I call Her my Hot Wife which She loves (I don't mean it in a swinging sense). Am currently waiting for a couple of Hot wife ankles to arrive that I ordered for Her. She seems to be looking forward to receiving them. She's noted the flowers I get Her, and the increase in romance from me - and sex. I'm continuing by getting Her some new panties and an engraved key fob for my keys. I used to lock myself while She was away on trips and tried a variety of cages but love my small Holy Trainer V3 the best. Hard to clean but so very comfy.
Hi jemima, It's an anklet with a tag on it which is engraved "Hotwife". Am looking forward to seeing it on my Wife!
Thanks for the welcome everybody and apologies for the mis-spelling of anklets to ankles in my original post! my gorgeous Wife told me last night that I needed to lock up in the morning, by 7am latest - which I have done! Locked or unlocked, I love my gorgeous Hot Wife. richard
Wow, I love this. My wife is not dominant either, but very much likes to be taken care of. How did you introduce the topic of chastity to her?
I summoned the courage - after all, in a marriage one should feel able to discuss things. I ran Her a bath, poured Her a glass of wine and washed Her while She sipped. I let the washing become a bit sexual and when I felt the time was a good as it would ever be, I blurted out how i would love for Her to sometimes lock my cock away, take control of it. I had to back away then because tears came into Her eyes. Reassuring Her of my love all the time. I gently brought it up again a few times in the coming weeks and She finally agreed. She didn't like me locked though - wouldn't touch the cage but did enjoy an afternoons love making when She came but I stayed locked. Since then it's been off an on (no pun intended) but recentky we talked some more and She is now more willing - and enjoys telling me to lock - and to beg for the keys so I can have sex! We are all different so your Wife will need an approach that only you can determine. Good luck and respect you Goddess!