Should males be punished for an unauthorised orgasm?

Husband gets 25 strokes of the tawse if he ejaculates without permission. If he ejaculates when he's across my lap for a spanking, he gets the 25 strokes of the tawse, then the spanking starts all over again. He must make it without ejaculating. I'll tawse and spank him as long as it's necessary. Usually, he ejaculates three times, so he gets 3 tawsings and 4 hairbrush or paddle spankings.

He must eat any ejaculate from his unauthorized ejaculations.

 

My wife has told me that if I pulled something like that, I wouldn’t cum for at least a year and would never be out of my cage alone again.

Once I was tempted to do it and tell her just to see if she was serious...but wasn’t worth the risk lol!

It was a lose lose deal. If I find she wasn’t serious she loses credibility. If she is serious, I violated her trust and have to always wear my cage and require supervision when I’m not. Also...I wouldn’t cum for a year!

 

Any unauthorized ejaculations result in my going across my wife's knees for a significant spanking.

 

I can't remember the last time that happened. However Miss Amanda would punish, or not, based on the circumstances, my attitude and contrition, and whether she felt punishment would help to ensure I made greater efforts to avoid next time.

That is the approach she takes with any misbehaviour or lapses in self-discipline.

 

My husband had an unauthorized ejaculation 20 days ago. He is writing lines every day - 'I obey Sweetness and I only cum when She permits it." 25 each day, plus has cage time that he is serving. We are pretty new to using a cage, so the sentence is 256 hours (16 hours/day * 16 days (amt of time till next scheduled O). The cage time did not start right away, and is not full time.

 

This is the second time we have used the line writing and cage sentence as punishment for unauthorized ejaculation. I asked him last night if he thought the line writing was helping - move the thought into his subconscious and he thinks it is.

 

I'd be in more trouble for being unlocked and/or masturbating. After 3 years of work by my keyholder and myself, I have no wish or desire to masturbate. Punishment is more likely to be having my chastity cage taken away till I can be serious about serving her, and doing what she requires from me to be in her service. She hits me for her pleasure, far more than for my pleasure.

That being said, it's a different relationship to have your keyholder function as a punisher of naughty boys, who will give you what you actually want, for doing something you enjoy or did, because it's naughty. In that context, the question of "should naughty boys be punished?" isn't really a question. The answer is that if that's your relationship, either professional or personal, then that's your agreement with your keyholder. The danger of having a menu of punishments for infractions is that if the bottom gets off on being in trouble, then the punishment is actually giving the bottom what they want. If that's the case, then who is actually in charge? Is the Top/Domme/Keyholder actually required to obey the rules and give the bottom what they manipulated the Top into giving? Is the chaste-bottom being naughty? bratty?, or did they honestly make a mistake? Was the scene designed by the Top to put the bottom in a situation where they were guaranteed to cum? There's a lot of variables here.

 

I think so.

I used a wand on myself, on the cage and made myself orgasm one time. Felt horrible afterward.

I fessed up by tying myself up spread eagle, blindfolded and gagged and left her a note about what I did. She whipped the shit out of me.

 

I only have my caged removed for cleaning/hygiene so I get to cum from anal stimulation. If I don’t ask madam for permission I get spanked/slapped and the dildo drawer gets locked!

 

Absolutely.

 

For repeat offenders: castration

 

I have been locked 24 / 7 for 15 months now. I am never let out without her. So for me it's no problem . I do not even want to think what would happen to me if I ever did. My Goddess has a very evil streak and she giggle and laugh the whole time while being punished. What really scares me about that, it won't be normal punishment with crop or paddle . It would be something worse.

 

On our chastity agreement document, we have a short list of punishments, at least one of which will happen, if an unauthorized orgasm/ejaculation occurs. So, for us, the answer is in the affirmative.

 

Post orgasm torture would be a particularly effective deterrent. If the slave wants to cum then give him what he wants - kill him with kindness. Then lock him up and only ever unlock him when he is restrained.

I’ve never had a chance to have an unauthorised orgasm (or any sort of orgasm for that matter) since being locked as I only ever have my cage removed if I am restrained beforehand.

 

My wife made me get 3inches of fake nails put on, and I found it very hard to stroke my cock, after that she locked me up. that was my punishment.

 

was it really that bad?

 

how much worse could it get

 

Post Orgasm Torture should be applied.

 

What kind?

 

We find that palming works best. Male must be restrained.

 

In my opinion. Yes you should be punished. If the behaviour continues the severity should increase untill such time as you would even dream of coming without permission

Also any stimulating of yourself while locked or not should be reported to her immediately and dealt with according.

This is only my opinion and our way of life. Your free to do what ever you want.