Hello everyone, I’ve been surfing this forums for a while and have got really interested about chastity and it’s effects on me. I’ve been married for 24 years this year and everything is good, but I felt a bit distant from my wife as I was masterbating a lot. So I finally got up enough courage to talk to my wife and suggest a cage. I thought she would dismiss me as stupid but, she listened and said she didn’t know anything about it. So after a few days I said I had bought something to stop me playing with myself and she was ok about it. After ordering a cheap Chinese copy and it arrived Friday 17th. Saturday morning I said we could try it and I put it on and showed her the lock and she then took the keys once on a. She kept saying it looks sore as I was getting hard all the time, but it’s not sore just uncomfy. That morning I made her cum with my hand, then at night I made her cum again with my hand, then she woke me in the middle of the night rubbing the cage and my balls and let me make her cum with my hand and then by my tongue and then in the morning again as well. So 5 orgasms to zero for me but lots of rubbing of me. Not a word has been said when she will let me out either. I’m so lucky!!!
you are lucky that you have a wife that is ok with it. Let's see how long you can go before you ask her to release you. She just may love you this way better. But congrats on that. The cheap ones from dhgate are good there has been no getting out of the metal one i am in.
I know from reading posts here, I’m really lucky she has tried it with me. She doesn’t know anything about it really but I explained how I felt and she was fine with trying it. I haven’t asked about release, and her last quip to me as the key disappeared was I might just keep it locked up!!! Which she could see I was bursting out of the cage.. This cage is maybe a bit large but has trapped me quite well and there is no way my balls can get through that’s for sure. But I’m looking about for a better one all the time just now.
I suggest that you focus on her pleasure and satisfying her needs. She will associate that with your being locked. Try, as best you can, to avoid begging for release for as long as you can. Sooner or later, She will realize the power that she enjoys over you and will being to treat you accordingly (and you to her, of course). Best wishes on your journey!
Your exactly right I need to do everything I can for her. To be honest I don’t want release just now anyway, but it’s only been locked since Saturday morning. The feelings I’m getting when she says something or brushes the cage with her hand and I get hard are quite different from me just rubbing myself, it’s hard to explain but it feels good that’s for sure. Thanks for taking the time to read and comment.