Hello

I've been doing chastity off and on for 20 years.

I started back when trapped ball devices weren't very good. I tried some cheap ones (e.g. Remy Tube) and moved to full belts. I've had an Access Denied (the original manufacturer in New York not the new ones), NeoSteel and Carrara.

But my problem was always security versus wearability. If the full belts were secure they would cause issues. But if it wasn't secure I wasn't happy. Ultimately, some issue would cause us to remove the device and I'd lose interest and we'd stop doing it.

My desire to be locked would return in time, but by then devices would often not fit right anymore. So this left me with quite a collection of devices I can't wear.

Most of my experience with chastity had been as an uncircumcised male. But a few years ago I had to have a circumcision for medical reasons. I’d always felt my chastity security was compromised by my foreskin, so getting circumcised seemed like an opportunity to try again. I thought about it and even talked some with my wife but never followed through and didn’t have a device that was worth wearing.

A little over a year ago, we got a Holy Trainer to see if we could get back into this. It went well and a few months later I got a Prince Albert Piercing. I'd always wanted to get the piercing since I thought it would help with my security problems, but never got the courage up to do it. I made a commitment with my wife to do it so it actually happened. By the end of 2017 I was wearing a Steelworxx Steelheart with a PA fixation full time.

So I'm now wearing 24x7. Our goal is to only have me having orgasms when my wife allows them. Which is still a work in progress since I can still orgasm without any stimulation, just from looking at porn or being in bondage. But in the last year we've made more progress on this than any time over the last 20 years.