So I was buzzing around the house cleaning up, taking care of things for the holiday visitors inbound, etc. I'm trying to atone for a bit of a bad attitude I've had a few times over the last week. My wife asked me to do a *bunch* of extra stuff this morning, more than I normally do, which I hopped to and knocked out. She pulled me aside, grabbed my crotch, and said "you need an attitude adjustment, you need to lock up." I replied with yes Ma'am of course. I went up and ran a cold shower to calm down and get into the cage. She took the key without so much as a word, which surpised me as well. This is the first time she took it instead of me giving it to her. I think my wife just became my KH? I wanted to share because this was very unique. It started that I would ask to be locked. Then it evolved into she would let me lock up if I pampered her. Then today happened. She had been chiding me about being in trouble a few times over the last few days, then BAMN! Go lock up!.. Going to be happy holidays indeed!
Congrats. You're an example of what I've advised for years. After the initial discussion, Act don't ask. Show her why she's special. Show her the benefits of being a Dominant and key holder and be the best subby hubby/chastity sub you can.
It's a wonderful thing when your keyholder evolves and begins to take control of the whole process, that's when it becomes real. Serve her well. Welcome to chastity.
She had me unlock myself for the evening, she doesn't trust the device for long term yet (for medical reasons). She woke up feeling bad this morning. On her way out the bedroom door, the last thing she said was, "don't forget to lock up".
Lovely, just lovely. As Hannibal of A-Team fame said "I love it when a plan comes together!" or should it be Mr T's, "I pity the fool.....". Enjoy your Holidays
I can say if this is the beginning, buckle up. It can be a twist and turn ride. Once the door opens, there's no turning back. Always expect the unexpected. This may be a very memorable holiday for you. Congratulations, we will all stayed tuned.
I think it's a pivotal moment in our desire for our other halves to take control. For me it's been a case of dropping heavy hints that I thought it was about time I was locked up again, but since we went to an FLR club in London in November something has changed in the dynamic. She has taken charge more and is telling me that I need to be locked. Recently this has been the next morning after she has used her cock the night before. It's strange that this is what I've craved for a long time and now it's happening it's a little surreal.
Day 3 going in the books. We had a great talk last night. I opened up and told her a lot of emotional stuff, chastity related and not. It was nice to do that and make that connection without it being an emotional plea for sex. I also gave her my phone last night to keep on her nightstand so i didn't stay up all night. Due to kiddos waking up and visitors rumbling around, I got up first while wife was still trying to sleep. I asked her if I should come shower and lock up when she woke up. "Of course!" Was the reply. I *really* need to move this to the journal section.