I just stumbled upon ChastityMansion and decided to sign up and I am glad that I did. I enjoy knowing there are others out there with similar thoughts & desires. I am single and long for an FLR type of connection with someone. My current status is edging during the day, locked at night, with my last orgasm on New Year's Eve 2017, so just over a week, but it's hard to maintain self-control! I hope to make some friends and then, maybe...
Yes, I have been cuckolded twice, each time by former girlfriends. There wasn't any chastity play involved, but they both had sexual relationships with other men while we were together.
Each situation was a bit different. I was in my 20's the first time. She eventually left me after becoming pregnant with his child. The second time I was in my late 30's and it was more of an on-going thing. I worked through a range of emotions each time and eventually accepted my inner cuckold.
I think that's a wise approach. The cuckolds I've known (at least those who knew they were cucks and accepted the role) seemed quite content. They enjoyed having their wives pleasured by other men and seemed to have stable marriages.
Are you looking for another relationship? If so, would you want to still be cuckolded? For some men, that's their personality.
Yes, I am very open to a new relationship and I know that it will almost certainly have to be one where I am cuckolded and kept in chastity. It's who I am, a cuckold.
Yes, it is. I didn't think so at first, but then it happened again. And the second time it happened it so much more natural, my response to it. And now I couldn't have any other type of relationship.
It's wonderful that you're at peace with it. I'm sure that you'll find another woman who'll be happy to oblige you. Were you present when the others were with their lovers?
I hope I do, but I know it's not likely. No, I wasn't there with them. But with the first girlfriend I can tell you that her other man was considerably more well-endowed than I am, it was easy to tell the difference, and it's a completely mind boggling experience to have sex with a woman while she's pregnant with another man's child. With the second girlfriend it was different, I could always tell when I went down on her.
I can imagine about the pregnancy. At first I was surprised that the cucks wanted to be alongside their wives while I was pounding away at them but I came to understand that they wanted to protect against things getting out of hand with multiple guys (unless that's what their wives wanted). We always had pleasant chats afterwards, with me thanking the cucks for their generosity in sharing their wives with me. I have great respect for couples in cuckold marriages.
I would certainly thank a Bull for pleasuring my woman in ways that she desired. I think that's part of the honesty & communication that would be required. My wife, being pleasured by another man or men, myself knowing and assisting her in it. Catering to both of their needs in order to ensure that it all goes well.
That's certainly how I would approach it were my wife to exercise her option to cuckold me, particularly since her lovers would likely be my close friends whom she trusts.
I think my personal preference would be for any future relationship to appear "normal" from the outside so to speak, so Bulls wouldn't necessarily come from our immediate social circle. But then, I also know that, ultimately, it wouldn't be my decision. It would be up to my wife to decide who she wanted to have sex with, when, where, how, how many times, etc....I would want her to have that freedom to choose, while I am denied.
Quite understand. My case is unusual in that I'm bisexual and cheated on my wife with several dozen women and hundreds of men. Justifiably she'll never again allow me to have PIV sex with her or anyone else. If she wants a cock inside of her, she wants to make sure that it's someone who she knows and has some reason to trust.
Sounds to me like 1) you're lucky to still be married, 2) a good dose of domestic discipline is in order, and 3) I hope your wife finds someone that can provide her with the sexual fulfillment she desires! Are you just kept chaste by being denied or are you also locked in a chastity cage?
I am indeed fortunate. As a condition of remaining married I have agreed to a female-controlled marriage in which I have signed over all of my assets to my wife, have agreed to be totally submissive and to be feminized to the degree that she decrees. Since medication has made me permanently flaccid caging is irrelevant. To literally drain me of my manhood I am mechanically milked twice daily. In order to reinforce my submission my wife pegs me daily to remind me of my decades as a bottom for alpha males. For the moment her massive pink vibrator satisfies her but that may change.