Introduction Hello. I thought to apply to register to this Mansion after seeing it being advised on the domme twitter pages of one of the Senior members or owners of the site whose postings tend to show a powerful influence and outlook. Also I have seen the subject raised on some other sites and places. So I thought to join to discover and explore more on this and related subjects. I have explored some aspects of chastity such as orgasm controls and tieing of my parts over short periods of time. I explored to purchase some chastity devices but found none ever seemed to fit my balls – or else maybe I need someone with skill to apply and lock and perhaps also to take the controlling commitment – so I have at times explored things like edging, orgasm control and permission. Also I have looked at possible improvised methods eg. Tieing in a leash the parts or wondering how one might find any methods that work. I have indeed bought various items eg holy trainer, cb2000 and similar but either never found they fitted or could get my balls through the devices. My size is seemingly average maybe with a slight girth otherly but I found getting the balls through the contraptions a difficulty or else needed someone to guide me or control things. Previously had improvised other approaches eg tieing of balls for a while as instructed once by an online domme. Also the whole subject of edging, being controlled and what chastity actually is has interest to me. Indeed part of the interest is due to the effects it can be said to have one one..eg, motivational, discipline, energy level, control and sensitivity increase and such possibilities. So the definition or differing levels of definition of what chastity is also has interest. Thank you it is interesting to explore and experience also the thoughts that can arise from all this too. regards,Andy
Welcome, Andy! I hope that you enjoy CM. Please tell us more about your journey. I'm sure that you will find lots of worthwhile advice on CM concerning cages and sizing. Please post often!
Enjoy the experiences you are embarking upon and let us know about your progress. It helps many of us to talk through the adventures.
Thank You Mistress Jules and I did get and read with interest the book You suggested at the end of Your message.
Thank You Goddess and I also read someo f Your discussion post about whether a chastity device is needed and how the discussion went. Indeed sometimes it seems a point of emphasis is the attitude and values that go with or even beyond any device, and the notions of experience which lead to to the chastity and similar orientations..eg control, saving oneself, edging perhaps etc.
Thank You DonnaSue. Indeed there seem to be a range of related topics also from brassiere wearing to other things.