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  1. demale
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    #26 demale, Dec 7, 2017
    Depends on whether this is going to be a fun fetish or something deeper. Do you truly want to dominate? Will he submit? Or is this just a teasing game?
     
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    #27 Joan.t, Dec 7, 2017
    Congrattulations for you and him.
    Now time to exercise your female power. Be happy and make him happy too!
     
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    #28 YessX, Dec 7, 2017
    For him, it is his 'dream that come true'. For me; still 'weird' to call it like that. I'm very new to all this, so we're taking it slow. I was always the dominant one, he likes to be teased. I like to tease, he was always the sub. But talking about chastity is one thing, actually doing it is another.

     
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    #29 Open2njoy, Dec 8, 2017
    Teasing will now take on a whole new meaning because you can tease to your hearts content. Enjoy the journey!
     
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    #30 filltee, Dec 8, 2017
    TTTWD is most unlikely to save a relationship ( yes I know it has done a few) and is most unlikely to enable an old relationship to stand up to the tests of time. Finding developing and establishing a relationship first and then introducing chastity play later is the best way round ( as a general rule)

    Are you sure you have addressed all the issues that led to your previous relationship with this guy breaking down? I dont want to dismiss the possibility of a renewed relationship working out wonderfully but on balance unlikely to work out long term is the more realistic probability.
     
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    Jessica Alexander Trans woman not a mistress or Dom

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    #31 Jessica Alexander, Dec 8, 2017
    Maybe you need to push his limits to find out if he has deeper desires. Chastity subs crave your control so push his boundaries to find out what they really are. Also, have fun! A horny guy in chastity will do all sorts of things for a reward so get him busy with chore or whatever YOU want.
     
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    #32 Jblocked, Dec 9, 2017
    You should know him better than anyone else dose know when he is trying to top from the bottom and so on. I would have a safe word and take it slow one day at a time see we're it go's. A good fit is A good fit so what if he is a x
     
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    Joroincharge Lock em up - 24/7/365!!

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    #33 Joroincharge, Dec 11, 2017
    Brilliant. Just let him simmer a bit and tweak his balls.
    And think of some things you really want from the arrangement for yourself. Because you will surely be able to get them!!;););)

    Enjoy! :):D:)

    J
     
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    #34 YessX, Dec 11, 2017
    TTTWD?

    And yes, major reason we stopped our relationship was not knowing this side of him and him not feeling comfy enough to tell me about it. So we simply drifted apart.

     
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    #35 YessX, Dec 11, 2017
    Oh, there is more. That I know for sure!
    It's quite nice to notice changing in his behavior. He knows that he needs me, even more than before. And I like it, to see him this desperate and powerless.

     
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    #36 YessX, Dec 11, 2017
    Thank you! We're growing in our new communication, yet I notice he's having a little struggle at times to answer me in the correct way. I'm his Mistress, he can't doubt me and he has to know I don't need him. He's still learning that. Nice and even cute to see.

     
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    #37 YessX, Dec 11, 2017
    He's 12 days in chastity now, and a few days ago I received a message that it was getting difficult/hard for him. So I replied with a nice echoot of me saying 'you're doing great, but I won't have time for you next week. Be a good boy'.
    At this moment, I see it as 'puppy training'. He will try to do things like he's used to, but I will correct him. Even without touching him.
    So nice, I'm enjoying every second of it.

     
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    #38 RexVa, Dec 12, 2017
    Great progress, @YessX, congratulations! We have power as women, and as you start in this life-long journey--with him or with other men down the road--you must be firm with what you want and exercise your female power in a respect-inspiring way.

    A word of caution: don't let him or anyone try to outsmart you, top you from the bottom or take advantage of you. On that note, please be aware that unless you instruct him to wear a truly secure device (custom made ones such as the Neosteel Arch, or maybe other small cages with piercing/cath) he will slip out easily, jerk off at ease, and turn all this into a joke on you.

    So, go ahead, take command, get what you want, and never, ever relent. Good luck.
     
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    Sylophine She has my key and I have her collar

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    #39 Sylophine, Dec 12, 2017
    Enjoy everything you are doing and keep the communication. You are an inspiration to many.
     
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    #40 Joroincharge, Dec 12, 2017
    That's it. Remember: for the average male balls = power. Once you've got the one you've got the other and if you use it properly then the sky's the limit.
     
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    Joroincharge Lock em up - 24/7/365!!

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    #41 Joroincharge, Dec 12, 2017
    :):):):):)
     
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    Joroincharge Lock em up - 24/7/365!!

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    #42 Joroincharge, Dec 15, 2017
    And BTW could be a good move if in his mind you are also having sex with someone else - whether you actually are or not doesn't matter!:);):)
     
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    #43 boisub, Dec 15, 2017
    “This Thing That We Do” ;)
     
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