Finally Popped The Question!

I finally got the nerve to express my interest in male chastity to my wife a few days ago.

I left a copy of Lucy Fairbourne’s Male Chastity: A Guide For Keyholders out overnight for her to find in the morning with a simple note attached asking for her thoughts about it.

I didn’t read the entire book before giving it to her - just the introduction (per the author’s instruction). But I absolutely loved what I did read and I felt that it was one of the few things out there of its kind that I would feel ok speaking for me. I felt like I was in pretty good hands with the author.

My wife got about half way through the book while I layed in bed with her (kind of) sleeping before I decided to get up and make myself a cup of coffee.

Her first response to me regarding what she had just read was: “What kind of device should we get you?"

Wow. I was dumbstruck with that response and still kind of an to be honest. I couldn’t have hoped for a better one! I feel super lucky and grateful she responded with such interest.

She did have a few other questions, namely on overnight wear (which I have my own on concerns about) and hygeine.

However, aside from those few (and awesome) comments that day, and a few (awesome) other ones in the days since she hasn’t showed much enthusiasm in discussing it much further - at least not as much as I had hoped considering her initial response.

I even went as far as to ask her wether or not she was surprised by the book, which she blew off by not really answering the question. And as of yet, she still hasn’t even gotten around to asking me how long I’ve been keeping my interest in male chastity to myself - which I figured would be a pretty much obligatory question.

I know some of the reason behind the lack of discussion is due to the book suggesting that she keep certain pieces of information to herself. And part of me thinks she’s purposefully playing her cards close to the vest, possibly to keep from seeming over eager? Or maybe she just hasn’t had enough time to process everything fully and understand her own feelings about it.

Anyway, aside from some slight confusion, I’ve spent the last few days basically elated and on cloud nine considering the enthusiasm she has shown and how positively she has responded. So glad I finally told her.

The book did suggest that we have a trial run/experiment to start things off - basically a tease and denial session with no orgasm for me the first night followed by a few days with no orgasm, during which I am to keep a journal detailing my level of arousal and frustration. She said we would be doing this in the next few days. She also had a list of chores for me to get done this morning, which I enjoyed very much.

In the meantime, I’m just trying to chill out and let her develop her own thoughts and feelings on it.

I would like to sincerely thank the community here at CM. Though I certainly understood some of these things inately, without some of the insight I've gleaned from the members here I highly doubt I would have had the wherewithal to let things develop at their own (her) pace.

Cheers!

 

Not gonna lie, I do have a slight trepidation that I might actually regret getting what I asked for.

 

Thanks! I was very impressed by what I read.

 

Thanks for that Jasmic. It's advice like that that is helping me focus on staying patient.

If it weren't for the insight and experience I've learned from others at CM I'm pretty sure I would have busted out a power point presentation with charts and diagrams by now.