Nighttime Restraint Advice?

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    So, as most of you know, my guy is healing from his PA and is currently unlocked. After grilling him some last night, he begrudgingly admitted to jerking off "once, sometime last week" while I was asleep. I was very upset that he went against the rules and did it, especially since I have been asking him if he's been good, and the answer was always a resounding "yes!" So I ended up plugging him with the remote control plug and had him put on the leather chastity belt. We went out to pick up dinner and drinks, so I got the chance to zap him several times with the plug while out. Fast forward to bed time, I wrapped his hands with bondage tape, put black socks over, and then locking cuffs. He tossed and turned, and was unable to sleep thus keeping me up. I do not like to sleep separately, so kicking him out is not an option. I guess the wraps might have been too tight, so he says, and made him feel claustrophobic, so i ended up taking them off. Anyone have any idea how I could make it work better? I do not want to tie his hands above his head, either - I'd prefer him to have full range of motion of his arms while he sleeps. Leather chastity belt at night not an option either, because i don't want him waking me to unlock him should he need to use the restroom.
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    What about locking bondage mitts? Pretty much the same thing as what you've tried but might not be so uncomfortable.
     
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    Yes, I think I may try that. Gonna try wrapping a little looser tonight and see how it goes.
     
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    wow, you deserve more obedience.
     
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    Also this is just me being silly, but it would sure be lovely if your boy could wear one of these protective dog cones around his waist like a skirt so he couldn't abuse himself before he's all nice and healed up. : )
     
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    Put a balled up sock in each of his hands, have him make a fist and duct tape his hands into fists. The sock allows some movement, but since his hands will be wrapped he won't be able to use them. My wife does this to me all the time, its effective and does not hurt.
     
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    oh yea, i tried that before as well. think i'll do that tonight!
     
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    I KNOW! I was super pissed and honestly hurt since he had essentially been lying to me.
     
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    Too cute, lol!
     
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    Here's an idea. Forget the bondage. Take some lipstick or a marker or something and paint the head of his penis with it. If he rubs it there will be evidence on his hand and penis. It might take some trial and error to find what works best but i think it would be a great way to keep him honest.

    Good luck!
     
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    He could just wipe the lipstick off with toilet paper and flush the evidence, then wash his hands and reapply. Well, Unless i hid the lipstick;)
     
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    Buy a new color that he can't duplicate. It might not work, I was just trying to think outside the box.
     
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    good idea...think i'll do that. i'll have to buy him some crappy boxers too so his nice ones don't get ruined.
     
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    You could also try numbing cream. Hubby bought some reticare, 5% lidocaine, and applied it to his penis. He said it was like his penis didn't exist. A heavy application lasted a couple of hours.
     
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    @Thatgirl bondage mittens all the way. Leather locking ones.... or why not stick him in a big diaper or nappy. Should make him behave!
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    Bought leather bondage mittens today!
     
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    Pictures?
     
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    Cut open a scotch bonnet pepper and rub it on his hands then send him to bed. Cheap and effective.
     
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    Let me know how they work. I would love to lock these on my husband during one of our sexy play sessions; denying him release and then making him sleep with them on.

    I found these two variations:
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    I also found these. Hopefully for his sake he doesn't start to fondle himself while he's sleeping.
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    Or lock his hands to a collar, leave enough slack so he can cuddle you but not reach below his belly button
     
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    I've seen those before!
     
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    Though about that as well. Unfortunately all i have is a strict posture collar....not conducive to sleep.
     
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