To all Mistresses, Is there a location on this site that my Wife can go to and learn/discuss from other Mistresses? She is very interested but I was looking for a safe haven for her to be able talk and dialog with other women. She is already on the site but does not visit much because it's a lot of information here. I greatly appreciate your time and responses! -Vivian
If you are specifically looking for dialog with women who have been in the same position, you might want to send her to fetlife.com. There are all sorts of groups for people new to the D/s lifestyle, as opposed to the chastity oriented information here/
Kali is correct, it depends on what sort of information she is looking for. Chastity information then this is a great place, however if it is more D/s or BDSM then probably better going for more general advice. Although Fetlife is probably not a good starting point. Feel free to advise her to email me and I am sure we could find out exactly what she is looking for without sending her somewhere that would put her off.
I just joined Fetlife and i must say the whole thing is seriously confusing. The interface is not user-friendly and frankly looks like a site that was started in the 90s and never updated. I did see that they are reformatting CM to possibly include a vanilla wives section, so maybe have her stick around to check it out.
I have been a FL member for about as long as I've been here. So long ago I've now forgotten which led me to the other. But FL IS confusing till you get your head round it. That said, if CM is about to include a vanilla wives section I agree this may be the way forward for now, and see how it goes.
I visited Fetlife once through an acquaintances profile and did some exploring. I thought it was awful.
I could use help also. Hubby asked me to KH I said yes. I am a vanilla wife trying to figure this out.
Hi @Heismine I am sure we could help out, if you don't want to post publicly and let your hubby know what your are thinking then feel free to either email or catch us in mini chat - the one at the bottom of the screen.
I chat with a few other 'vanilla' wives on here and via my blog. Always happy to help! It's guys fun comparing notes.
I created a secret Pinterest board for the wife and I and pinned your Locktober posts hoping she will use it for some inspiration.
Excellent idea. Jules is a real expert!! BTW on CM you also set up a PM structure with more than one participant. Ideal for swapping ideas confidentially among a small group.
I have seen @Mistress Jules mentor newcomers at clubs and events she is a natural. I think it would be great if we could do something on here to help new members.
Thanks for the kind words @Joroincharge and @lockit I am sure we can do something that would be useful to ladies looking for a bit of support and ideas. As was said we can do a group conversation with the email system and no doubt there are other things available if required. Ladies, please feel free to message me if you wish to chat and hopefully you can come to enjoy the reality of male chastity as much as I have in recent years.
Been on to f or a long time, like here, once you under stand it its okay, like here. And yes I think we could use a section to help out vanilla folks who come on here, both for those in chastity and those wanting to know about being a Keyholder but that is just me what the hell do I know. "Giggles"
I'll mention it to my wife to see if she is interested in reaching out to someone to talk about male chastity. Thank you.