So we talked a little more about it last night. She said we will start on Monday. I am terribly excited and scared at the same time. She wants to know how to do this. I tried to explain there are no rules and once she closes the lock I have no say over any of it. So I am going to look for links that maybe will help her wrap her head around it.
We started this yesterday. We had some private time last night. I gave her orgasms, she gave me swollen balls. I am not sure how this will work long term. I have only masturbated once in recent memory. Like most men my age I have some ED, and seriously don't want to waste a boner by jacking off. And Mistress likes getting laid. So it may well end up being take it off for her and then put it back on after. I am proud of Mistress M. She went on her own and found a book about handling a submissive man. She knows I have this blog and if she wants to read it I will show her. She is super hot, great in bed and very supportive of my twists and perversions. I hope I can please her and keep her interested in it. We are looking forward to having a her as my Mistress and keyholder.
I am not sure how this is going to work. Originally i was encouraged to try chastity as a way to revive mine and my wife's love life. It worked pretty well. Definitely stopped my chronic masturbating. Since my wife passed masturbation was my only sexual outlet. Now that I have met someone I have a outlet for my sexual needs. Mistress M is awesome. But the thing is that she loves sex. If she cages my penis then she has no access to it either. I don't want to masturbate now because I know she wants to pleasure me as a big part of her getting sexual pleasure. If I want to jerk off or wear lingerie she is all about it. All she asks is that she can watch. I like that a lot. She has never said no to my sexual advances, many times she initiates it. We have some type of sex whenever we are together. It is pretty awesome. She has had me wear the cage on occasion when we are not going to see each other for the day. But her heart is not really into being a Domme. She will let me out when she feels my hard dick straining in the cage. So I don't think chastity is in the immediate future. But I am alright with it all.
It sounds to me like your experiences with chastity have really influenced how you are developing your relationship sexually. That can only be a good thing. I like the way you are describing this new relationship, it sounds really positive and fulfilling.