My unexpected life

lippin75 thanks for stopping by but I am a little perplexed by your post. I guess I am missing something.

At any rate not much has changed in a while. Although we are getting back to normal in the normal sense pretty much all else is still in place. Of course tonight I sit here with it pouring rain and our basement filling up and all I can think of i thank God for sump pumps! We had a huge mess last year so we invested in one and right now I think it is safe to say we are thankful!

So business is booming and that is good, the Goddess is on her weak one of her rolling layoff (three planned for the year). As if there was not enough stress to deal with we got this. but at least were somewhat planned for it and it is just a week not indefinite like some others in her work place are experiencing.

Well that is about all for now. If I all works out who knows maybe something exciting in the days to come to write about!

 

wow terribly sorry for the once again extended delay. I have to say for once I am at a loss. We have had some really good talks lately but nothing to exciting. with my birthday coming up real soon she made a joke about how our sex life had gone a little stale and she wanted to give me a gift of having sex 38 times in a year for my 38 birthday. Tonight she laughed and corrected me when I was talking about it and mentioned that she said sex 38 times NOT 38 orgasms. Out came that little laugh and for a brief second I thought maybe she was getting back to something. Time will tell I guess.

In the mean time I have resurrected the Wii guitar Hero, the Xbox Splinter Cell, and my newest addiction Second Life. It seems after the kids and work we each go to our respective corners; her on Facebook and me on my choise of poison for the night. I feel lost...

 

LMAO...oh Mike. Thanks so much. It is indeed by my birthday today and for some reason it feels like any other day. I think you get to a point where you just say ah who cares. For me that was about 21.

As I am still getting the coffee fix right now I will defer today's post to a little later in the day!

 

MY MY MY..Well it certainly looks like Goddess has a one-up-on me here. Today was crazy busy and I just got the time to get on here and post about a rather amazing birthday.

As a complete surprise we had a normal lunch together today that turned into anything but normal. We generally drive together as our offices are literally blocks apart and it is far more economical to just drive one care from work rather than two. However my gut today told me to take the second one as I feared my day would be longer than hers and we would not be able to come home together. No sooner did we get to work when she said we needed to go home at lunch to get the other vehicle as she had some meetings away from the area. Al I could think was "I told you so"

We get home had a good lunch, good because the food was already bought and paid for which means we saved some money over eating out. what completely caught me off guard was her going upstairs to change for her meeting and she looks at me to tell me she will be naked upstairs. Now call me silly but it did not take a genius to figure out that was the only invitation I was getting.

Needless to say there was a ton of teasing on her part and there were at least a few instances where I was not sure if she was going to cuff me to the bed and leave me wanting or finish the job. Luckily it stayed mostly vanilla and regardless was extremely appreciated by me. My gift from her for my birthday was sex 38 times this year minimum. that is roughly three a month. Although what I found rather intriguing is the fact that she admitted today she does want me back in lock up and that although she said sex 38 times that does not necessarily mean 38 orgasms. My mouth fell wide open and she just grinned from ear to ear. I think it is safe to say we might be on the road to recovery in this area. Anyway not sure what else I was to write about but I am sure she will let me know if I left anything out or she has anything to add.

 

You guys kill me!!! More when I get to a computer and not my iPhone.

 

Steel Cold Frustrating Steel!

Well just from the title it should be evident that Goddess is back! Not sure what got into her last night. We were in our downstairs bathroom getting ready for bed and I was looking for some stuff in the medicine cabinet. that is when I came across the Lori device forgetting that we tucked it way in there for safe keeping. I made the comment an said "oh here that is" truly forgetting where I had put it. She said she knew it was there all the time and that I should put it on while I was at it. My look of "What?" I think turned her off slightly and she said oh never mind. I told her no! If she wanted me in then say the word. "Word" came an in I went.

I forgot what it was like in this thing. She did not though. When we climbed into bed she just giggled and there was that familiar woman I knew a few months back. Although she was different too. As I rolled over to my normal position facing away from her in bed she made me roll over and made sure my caged member was nestled nicely between her butt cheeks! I was like WTF? Then she started rubbing her self against me like she had done this all the time. First night in and I was like oh God help me?! Luckily that is where she left things but it did wonders fro my mind. I slept very soundly until that nocturnal attempt at an erection happened. I laughed slightly because the mindset had obviously left me from the past as I could not figure out why the erotic dreams she caused would be causing me to feel as though I could not achieve a full hard on right now. As the pain set in I awoke the rest of the way with full realization of my situation. WOW!

I am not sure what is in store for me from here on out but I guess time will tell. I do think this time around will be a little more intense. She now has the birdlock as well and we can switch back and forth as needed. This means less excuses for releases due to comfort etc. Knowing the birdlock does not quite kill me like the lori Tube does when trying to get erect I can see that device being used when she decides to have me service her. Wow! Not sure where all this is going but at least it is all good news right now. Of course this means is she keeps her gift to me there will be literally no reason not to keep in lock up all the time till she has needs for me. Three sexual encounters a month will be enough I would think to limit the problems partly associated with extreme long term lockups.

Well take everyone and as always thank you for stopping by!

 

HAHAHA Thanks-mmmm yes THANKS! for pointing that out!

Well today I am in the birdlock. I wore the Lori all day yesterday and the night before and wanted to compare. First thing I notices already much easier to ride the Motorcycle with the Birdlock device. Plus even in the extreme cold of 38 degrees this morning I did not have the problem I had in the Lori with shrinkage and thus pull out. Not even close actually. could be a start to my demise though. As the Birdlock has an "emergency" out by cutting the strap, which if course Goddess would then know about it is the first time I do have an "emergency" key very odd feeling indeed.
More later-

 

Here we go again...

Normally this type of headline would be a negative one but not this time. Goddess has had me locked up nor for three days straight in the Birdlock and one day prior to that in the Lori device. I think she seems to prefer the Birdlock device for some reason. I prefer it for two reasons; nocturnal erections are much more bearable and the devices is lighter. However what I do not like the is the constant cleaning that I find necessary to keep the crud from building up inside. Due to the nature of the silicone I get a little dry inside which causes some slight chaffing. Now she has made mention that I will be servicing her while wearing this device and for that I would much rather be wearing the Birdlock device. Well let's be honest I wold rather be free in that case but if I have to pick one then the birdlock would be the better choice. However the longer term care and comfort of the Lori Device just can't be beat.

Now for some reason after only being in this for three days my frustration level is a little higher than normal. Obviously I have done this many times before but today I started daydreaming about almost everything I could dream about. Not sure why but my fixation on her gorgeous body was at a high today. Luckily for me he has not exploited that. While she does enjoy the control I think it is safe to say it will be some time before she is back in here Pure Mistress/Goddess moods. this could be good for me today, if she had me servicing her today in this mood I wold go out of my mind. Time to get my mindset in tack while I have the advantage or at least some self control left. Later-thanks for stopping by everyone.

 

Hello high rolln. I have the number and yes the rings do not have a hinge on them. It is a fixed ring design. Took me a little while to get use to it but it works much better. When ordering pay strict attention to the instructions you get before finalizing your order. Each one is different and has a unique way of measuring. I had the spiral and attempted to mess with the measurements a little and I ended up having to sell the device. Please feel free to IM me if I can be of any assistance here.

 

Well today marks the beginning of that stage. You know the one where nothing is really happening on the home front but for some reason the frustration level is up all on its own. all I could think about today was what I want her to be doing and more importantly what I would love to be doing for/to her. Crazy.

I started the move into the new studio today and found myself rather surprised as the day progressed how little restrictions the Birdlock caused today. I hardly realized it was there until mid day. At the point the moving up and down ladders pulling cable through conduit caught up with me and I could start to feel a little chaffing. It was evident by the time I got home. A little lotion and so far everything feels ok. I think the biggest frustration was with the damn padlock just lightly tapping as I walked. Almost as if a constant reminder of my situation. Well another day behind me as I move into a crazy week I would rather avoid. Nothing to exciting at this point to write about so till tomorrow.