My KH was edging me via hand job after a 5 day lock up recently. Usually I am good about asking permission to cum or letting her know it is close. This time however it just built up really quick, and I let it go. She was not very happy to say the least!! She threatened a month in the cage as result, but has not enforced it yet. She also was so pissed that she asked me what is the point of her being in control of I am going to just cum when I want to. Needless to say this has caused some hard feelings. Any thoughts on how I should repair this, or offer any punishment ideas? Ideally she would come up with these herself, but she is new to KH and also playing the dominant role.
Mistress has a KTB that is used whenever I displease Her. That's a pretty harsh punishment, but it certainly makes you think - even when you are otherwise stimulated!!!!]
I have seen those.... Ouch!! My KH expressed interest in us ordering the Looker 1 from Steelworxx. Only for the anti pullout security tho, not as punishment for any infractions.
Chastity is for fun thus one unexpected climax should not be seen as the end of the world . Both of you should laugh as in some respects in this situation she is just about as much to blame as you . A full on hand job after 5 days is playing with a ticking time bomb So ok you are on chores for a week just to show willing ! Xx Wendy
If I were you, I would ask her for that month in the cage. This way, she would feel in control, you would not be able to cum and you would regret cumming without her permission. I would also spend that month being extra attentive to her, to earn her forgiveness.
Firstly I'd echo the advice that it's really not a big issue, if you're not going over sometimes then she'll never learn how to really brutally keep you on the edge. The fact she got SO mad about it... suggests some suppressed anger about having to do it at all to me,I'd suggest you talk about why she's feeling that way. However having said that, we have the rule it's ALWAYS his fault if he goes over, so with that in mind, a good compromise for punishments from someone learning to domme is to come up with a list but let fate decide, we flip a coin or use a dice. My suggestion, roll a dice to decide the punishment, amend the list below as you wish, it's just some ideas. And then roll again to decide how many weeks lock up follows. a handjob with menthol rub a ruined orgasm that you have to eat a full on post orgasm torture ruined orgasms until you dry cum instant lock up with no punishment a blow job she has to swallow* *So, we're switchy, and often what I'll do is have a punishment game but ONE of the options is actually a reward that turns the tables, just to keep things really interesting. But obviously if that doesn't appeal, just stick in another punishment - caning etc (we're not into that) Hope some of that helps!
Great ideas! Thank you, I will bring your ideas up to her. Your idea of having one good option is a fun twist to it