One last orgasm before locking a device?

Discussion in 'Chastity and orgasm denial' started by MistressLianne, Dec 9, 2015.

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Should someone who's locked for the first time get one last orgasm before the device is locked?

  1. Yes

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  2. No

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    #26 wishful, Dec 11, 2015
    Hi I said yes as the downer after an orgasm will make him far more manageable for the first day or so and he will Romberg what he is missing. In addition it is much easier to get the device on. It's close though as icing him down and locking him up would be a great mind fuck. Best of luck and enjoy it whatever you choose.
     
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    #27 HenkieY, Dec 11, 2015
    It might be just me, but saying 'yes' because "It's easier to put on the device after an orgasm" might just be the most stupid reason to let a sub orgasm....
     
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    #28 MistressL, Dec 11, 2015
    Simple answer, No.
     
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    #29 MistressLianne, Dec 11, 2015
    I have to agree with @HenkieY on this one. "Ease of putting the device on" would be the last reason for him to get a final orgasm ;)
     
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    #30 Cottus, Dec 11, 2015
    I'm a carrot and stick kind of person, so I voted yes.
     
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    #31 Jasmic68, Dec 11, 2015
    It does depend on where you are putting the carrot or what you are doing with the stick!
     
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    #32 maid_carrie, Dec 11, 2015
    Yep, and the Looker insert seems to have an amazing effect on a tumescent penis anyway. It seems to slide in and and just keeps compressing it until the lock slides into place :)
     
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    #33 SubVerity, Dec 11, 2015
    I voted no. But you could give him one afterwards, once he is locked.

    It must be remembered (as much as a chap will like to think otherwise) that a firm constant pressure on a penis will force the blood back out and it will soften and compress.

    Because of this, I quite like the idea of tying him, and playing with him to an edge or as you please, but not to orgasm. Show him the device, explain your plans, and then while he is erect, gently force the device on him and lock it closed. Then if you have a magic wand, he can be brought to orgasm while in the cage. It wont take too much vibrating the fixed end of the insert to produce quite a deep, but incredibly frustrating orgasm. I'm sure you have your own ideas, but it is quite something being forced to orgasm while in a device. The lack of a full erection or any other contact while it happens is deeply unrewarding. :)
     
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    #34 maid_carrie, Dec 11, 2015
    Tell me about it @SubVerity ;) - very intense sensations from the wand at full power around the glans and insert leading to a spurt that is definitely "deeply unrewarding" :( And totally under @MistressLianne 's control, of course, as she can move away from the "hot spots" but maintain frustration. :)
     
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    #35 gymgenius, Dec 11, 2015
    I'd say no. If he's gone a few days since last orgasm, then you lock him up, he'll be so much more mailable and submissive.
     
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    #36 Mark Owen, Dec 12, 2015
    Edging without orgasm...
    I really love the idea of SubVerity!!
     
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    #37 filltee, Dec 12, 2015
    I have to agree with subverity being made orgasm whilst locked is not pleasant. I'd rather forgo the offer if given a choice, even if it meant a long wait.

    As for being allowed to orgasm before being locked.. it rather depends on what the KH's motivations are for the locking.
    Not allowed to cum means he will soon be wanting to be unlocked and allowed to.
    Letting him cum before, especially if its a few times, will give him a little time to adjust to being locked before he starts to feel that he needs to cum again.
     
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    #38 arman220, Dec 14, 2015
    I voted no. He will get full faster that way.
     
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    #39 Her Dividend, Dec 14, 2015
    Have to say that I don't have enough information to offer an informed answer. I'm from the intimacy camp regarding chastity, and denial can cut both ways. To me, how you introduce the device is everything. I hope it goes well.
     
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    #40 MistressLianne, Dec 14, 2015
    Full? :p
     
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    #41 Mascara^Snake, Dec 14, 2015
    I think, full of passion is what he is referring to.
     
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    #42 Colleen1986, Dec 14, 2015
    I hope so, otherwise it sounds like "Top it off, check under the hood and make sure the tire pressure is right." :)
     
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    #43 LadyFedora, Dec 15, 2015
    Came back from holiday and saw this wonderful post :D
    And the short answer: Ofcourse he should not orgasm! ;)
     
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    #44 MistressLianne, Dec 15, 2015
    lol! :D I knew you would say this :p
     
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    #45 Captured Pirate, Dec 22, 2015
    I voted yes, but I am facing being locked up for two, probably 3 weeks almost immediately after being married, without much real satisfaction beforehand. When I was single the idea of it was such a turn on, but now, it's a bit frightening. My Wife is acting VERY enthusiastic about it now, so it's becoming real. At first She wanted to lock me up for two months, and She still might, I'm just not sure. The other night She said "I can't WAIT to cut you off (from having unrestricted orgasms, which are so WONDERFUL)!" I asked Her what She meant and She said "I want to drive you CRAZY!" Then she grinned and hurriedly said "Not in a bad way; in a really GOOD way." So I am not sure what She has planned for me. I know I'll enjoy it, because she seems to really GET IT now, but at the same time it's a little scary. So being in my situation, I would REALLY appreciate one last one.
     
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    #46 Jake Worther, Dec 26, 2015
    Theoretically, they already have had a final orgasm. It was the one prior to their discussion with you about going into chastity. I find it can also jeopardize the willingness for the slave to be locked. If they've already got their jollies off, they may be less willing to comply, since they got what they came for (no pun intended).
     
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    #47 Mr.Orange, Dec 29, 2015
    Why don't you use chastity as the punishment for the first "mistake" he does... And it goes without saying, no orgasm for bad guys. ;)
     
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    #48 Jewelsandb, Jan 1, 2016
    When Jewels and I started (back) up with chastity several years ago, we had to wait a while for our custom Steelworxx cage to arrive. The day we ordered it she allowed me an orgasm, then told me that I would be on the honor system until the device arrives and that I still needed to remain orgasm free so that she can give me one last incredible orgasm before locking me up. So, despite the urges, I kept myself under control for 6 weeks. This was made easier by her tying me to the bed each night and always being around me. The day that the new cage arrived she texted me at work and I was so excited that I felt like I would explode (figuratively and physically). I was excited to start chastity again and REALLY excited to get the incredible orgasm she promised me.

    That night she tied me to the bed and teased me for well over two hours. I was brought to the edge so many times that I felt like a piece of lint landing on my penis would push me over the point of no return. The whole time her focus was completely on teasing me... until she straddled me head and allowed me to lick her to a single mind blowing orgasm (my liking isn't that great, but she was SO turned on that it made her shutter for several minutes after). After she settled down she got off the bed and retrieved the cage and an ice pack. As she started to ice down my erection and fit the device into place she looked me square in the eyes and stated "I sure hope you enjoyed that incredible orgasm, I know I did." With that, she locked me up for the first day of a 35 day lock-up.

    So my answer is NO orgasm for your sub.
     
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    #49 TimidGuy, Jan 1, 2016
    @MistressLianne. If you choose to let the victim here have a last organism before locking him up--a surprise on several counts--it might take quite a while before he is flacid and able to fit into the unit. It might take a little more than lube or the silk stocking method, if time is of interest.
     
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    #50 Colleen1986, Jan 1, 2016
    Awesome! Sounds like your KH is perfect. Happy 2016!
     
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