LOCKED FOR A YEAR

Well lads, I was due release in July and I have been informed that I might be released on or around the Christmas or new year period. That will make it two years if my k/h follows through with.

 

wow, you guys are so lucky! lol

 

I have gone three months before with no release. I found that my wife could either go with or without oral orgasm's provided by myself. She could just use a vibrator and get the same results. It looks like I will go till September with no release this time so will hit 4 months as a minimum. I look forward to hearing your progress.

 

I haven't decided when I shall give my pet an orgasm, though as it stand right now it's looking like he will be in chastity for 6 months through to a year.

 

Here is my input. There is no prize or award for going without an orgasm for a year. Just lots of horny days and nights. My experience, although not as much as yours, is that more frequent orgasms have health benefits such as less chance of cardiovascular disease, prostate cancer and a few other things. We cut back from a month at a time to half that and we are both happier, even if I do not win the orgasm denial throphy. I am just as sweet and obedient after my orgasm as before. If I am not, I do not get to cum in two weeks. I find that more motivation than waiting for months for an orgasm because what I do now will be forgotten or forgived by that time.

However, like most, the thought of long term denial is exciting to me, so go for it,

 

In my understanding as long you are milk the prostate often, which I have been doing weekly that it increases prostate health. So even though I plan to deny him an "orgasm" I am going to give him frequent milkings.

 

I am a new wearer and my longest time in chastity was only 23 days

 

Nothing to offer there, unfortunately. Very much alone and have not touched a woman for almost 13 years.

 

Just to clear up some confusion for the readers here including myself.

1) Are the people talking about being locked up 24/7 for long periods like 6 months or a year without being unlocked at any time for T&D or orgasm (literally being locked (no out whatsoever) for 24/7/365 with no touching of your penis whatsoever) or.....

2) Are people talking about being unlocked sometimes for T&D without orgasm and the orgasm will not happen until the long length of time that has been determined is reached or....

3) Or if you are going for 6 months to a year, locked for months on end (2,3,4 months straight) with the occasional unlock for T&D only and orgasm only at the determined time.

We have gone anywhere from 2 months to a year sometimes but usually it's 3-4 months without orgasm of any kind. When I do get to orgasm, it's usually a ruined one and their brutal. My wife says that an orgasm is an orgasm and I should be thankful with whatever she decides which I am. My wife is so good at it that I typically only spurt a small amount of cum. If I am lucky, I have a couple of pulses, but more often than not, I have to squeeze out the first pulse and maybe get a few drops to follow. It's probably been close to 2 years now since I have had full blown orgasm and they are never inside her. She will fuck me all I want when unlocked and handcuffed, but no cumming in her is allowed.

 

Forgot to add that in those long stretches without orgasm, I am released from time to time for T&D. I can't believe anyone could be in 24/7/365 lockup without any unlocking whatsoever for some type of stimulation or T&D at all for 6 months to a year or more. The longest I have gone locked without any unlocking was 4 months and was out of my mind and as horny as I thought I was, it took a while for my cock to get fully erect. Don't do that any more. It reminded me of when I broke my arm and how weak it was when the cast first came off.

 

Could you tell us more what happened, how weak, or painfull etc?
The reason Im asking is that my Hotwife want to lock me for a month or more. A little bit scary, yet exciting though.

 

I agree, locked up 24/7/365 with no T&D would be pointless in my mind. I would lose interest and just want to quit. But if I were teased regularly then who knows how long I could go, the thrill of denial is pretty powerful.

 

A month or 2 should be fine. However a little unlock for T&D is very effective in keeping you in a very aroused state. Much better than lock and ignore.

After that 4 month stint which was extremely exciting at the time, I think it was a combination of things. While it felt great it was a little different because it hadn't been stimulated for so long and I think the feeling was sending signals to my brain that it had become unfamiliar with. Remember, even you don't have sex for a long while with your wife when not in chastity, you can still touch yourself and even masturbate if you want so the feeling is familiar. When locked with no physical stimulation for a long period, the signals are a little off. That's why you hear some guys say that the first orgasm they have isn't that great when locked up for a long period of time but the second one is outstanding. That's because the brain and penis are in sync again. Kind of like that broken arm syndrome because your arm and brain signals need to get back in sync.

 

That's why I am trying to find out what most guys mean when they say they are in for a long lock down.

There's a big difference between all the scenarios I posted a little ways back.

Being locked 24/7/365 and no stimulation. This is definitely possible with the right cage but I doubt this is what they mean.

Or are they going to be locked almost 24/7/365 with the almost meaning that you are not going to be able to orgasm for a long time (however long that time period is) but will be unlocked periodically during that time period for some T&D. I think this is what they mean.

 

It abit easy if you a sissygirl cos then you dont wants to do mess. .Well i don't anyways

 

For me, I'm only occasionally locked up so nothing like 24/7/365. It's all about trust for me. And my KH knows I'd never orgasm without her permission. It makes it very frustrating when I have access to it most of the time. My KH also likes to see me get hard just so she can frustrate me more.

I love it!

 

If I were a mistress I would enjoy unlocking my sub after a long period of denial to see what kinky things made him hard.It would be quite humiliating for him to have his mind read through his cock.

 

Didn't cum at all in 2013. You can do it!

 

At long last, an update. To be honest, this year I have mostly been avoiding porn or kink sites, as I find they are counterproductive when I am in an extended period of denial. So I have not been on here much.

So this year I have gone with no full blown orgasms, as we refer to them, and have received nine ruined orgasms. Luckily for me, my Mistress does believe in regular teasing so I usually get some kind of teasing (i.e., physical stimulation) every week. Sometimes more than once a week.

We are already planning on how to relieve the drought the first weekend of January, and my Mistress is promising me something special. I have not fucked or gotten a blow job (at least not from a woman) in years, so perhaps something like that is being considered.

Its been an interesting year, and at times I thought I would go crazy. Got my PA piercing in January and had some issues with it the first few months, so lucky for me that kind of kept my mind off of the challenge. The last thing i wanted to do those first few months was stimulate the poor little guy. I just wanted it to stop aching from the piercing and the healing. And then after the healing was mostly down I was back in the PA 5000, but that was causing damage as well until I was able to finally gauge up to the 4 ga hook. In the meantime, Sue had to let me out of the device from time to time to let my dick heal from the trauma the PA5000 was inflicting.

As those who get them will attest, the ruined orgasms are both a blessing and a curse. At least they reduce the pressure I feel when I have gone a long time with no relief. But at the same time they are incredibly frustrating. For many of them I was not even aware I had spewed any cum, as it just barely trickles out. Sue did try to prostrate milk me a few times with no success. We did buy a vibrating prostate massager that she was able to put in her strap on that got me very close, but to no avail. All that being said, i doubt I could have gone the year without some kind of milking/ruined orgasms from time to time. As frustrating as they are, i came to look forward to them as they are the closest I get to a real orgasm.

I quickly realized there was no way I could continue my porn habit, as it was just too frustrating. I've gotten into a lot of online games as a substitute. For the longest time I felt like I was just losing interest in sex, and I definitely feel like my libido has gone down. Perhaps that has more to do with less porn, though. I also lost my job of 19 years in June, so for a few months I was kind of depressed about that. Although I would not recommend that, it did keep my mind off of the denial and kept my libido in check.

Its only been in the last few weeks, now that the end is nigh, that I feel my libido coming back.I think once I accepted what was happening, my body kind of shut down a little. But now that I know I will soon get a real orgasm, my body feels like its awakening again and anticipating the end of the eyar.

But that begs the question of what happens next year. Now that the piercing is healed and I have guaged up to the largest hook, the chastity is comfortable enough for everyday wear. Sue says she wants me in the device as much as possible next year, although she did say I will be permitted regular orgasms with her supervision when she thinks I have been good.

We recently saw Sue's Friend with Benefits, and he is quite pleased with her progress in keeping me chastised, and is encouraging her to keep me locked up next year. It was his suggestion to her that first gave her the idea to get me pierced so she could keep me in inescapable chastity. Being the helpful guy he is, even found a piercer for her. Thank you Sir.

Only a few more weeks to go....At the beginning of the year I didnt think I could ever make it the whole year. Now that the time is drawing near I am actually kind of proud of what I have accomplished. Almost accomplished, that is.....

 

Congratulations on what must have been a challenging year! Nice bike by the way. Does your device present any problems when riding?

 

Not with the PA5000. Ball trap devices did present problems, though. The bike is a BMW R1200 RT. Best bike I have ever owned.