markslo85

Hi.

Our story...

We are a couple for a very long time and we intend to stay together. If you ask me, she is The One. I adore her more than anything. It all started as a vanilla relationship, but we soon realized that we both like kinky stuff and BDSM.

First years in realtionship we were very active in BDSM comunity in our country. With time all this slowly began to fade. We get to the point where we were doing absolutely nothing related with sex, kink and BDSM. She initiated all this, but I was not interested, my libido was at -1. I felt very bad, without energy, depressed… shortly - like a "shit".

I thought I had medical problems, low T levels, bad blood, some serious illness ... I was totally down. I have a very sexy girlfriend, who loves me, who want to fuck me, who want to have babies with me ... but I was like blah, blah, blah ... How is that possible?!?

One day I saw video on Youtube about NoFap. I was shocked when I realized that I watch porn and masturbate every day. Ups… Masturbating every day and not having sex with a sexy girl laying next to you that want to have your dick in her, but you are not interested?!? It is something veeeery wrong here.

I made a commitment not to masturbate and watch porn for 3 months. Belive me or not - after just 1 month I see a lot of improvements. I get my libido back, I have energy and most important – I love to be with my girl, kissing her and tuching her nice ass. It is all OK now.

Fast forward to today…

She is 100% submissive. I am 100% switch. In our relationship she is submissive to me. She loves to be tied up, chained, spanked and much more… When I don't have orgasm I am full of energy and we will play like we did at the beginning of our relationship. I practise self locking in chastity belt. She is OK with that and encourage me, because I play with her more often if I am locked and she loves that. She is not willing to take a key, because she is totally submissive to me. She enjoys when she is totally helpless. If she had my keys I would be somewhat under her control. We don't want this to happen. It would destroy our relationship dynamics.

So here we are now...
We have good times together, playing kinky stuf, having sex from time to time… When we are not together I am self locked in chastity. I don't have much orgasms, and that is very good for both of us. She gets much more orgasms and that is somewhat very erotic for me and drives me crazy even more.

We joined this forum because we would like to explore chastity more. She is also interested, but we found female chastity belts not usable in a daily life.

What are we looking for?

Not much… We would be happy to talk with other people, preferred with couples, and exchange experiences, ideas… Maybe meet new friends from our country and hung out sometimes…