Hi all, I'm a fit 58 year old from Rhode Island, USA. Self employed (22 years) business consultant (35 years) into cycling, swimming, photography, and wood working. I'm a lifelong kinky person with an emphasis on spanking. Just have an empty next for the first time in 25 years and finally exploring chastity and hoping my wife will come along. I'm here to commune with like-minded folk and learn enough to confidently approach my wife about locking me up and letting me serve her. Cheers!
Welcome. My wife and I are in almost the same situation. Except because of Covid we only had an empty nest from January to March 2020 when they sent everyone home from college. Good luck with chastity, it has really lit a fire under our love life.
Welcome! And wishing you success on your journey. We love our kids, but knowing they are independent and self-reliant has made our empty nest years delightful.
Welcome I am certain that you will enjoy the site...and you most certainly will find "like minded people."
I have so far, thanks. I made an album showing my first "real" device - the first one that I can't just escape from. It's a thrill to reach this little milestone!
I'd love to chat and understand how it has lit the fire. I haven't come out to my wife with my denial and caging interest - was waiting until I had a "real" cage that worked, and now I do. So soon I'll talk to her about what it means and the key. I think she'll be open but she's pretty vanilla so I need to make it work without confusing her. I wonder if you have any advice?
I have written about how we started in my Journal. https://www.chastitymansion.com/for...orums/index.php?threads/locked-in-love.35560/ It was actually a couple of years between me introducing the idea and showing a cage and our 'breakthrough' in October of 2019. Just last week she sincerely thanked me for how patient I was with her and never making her feel pressured.