I met my partner 11 years ago on a site called InformedConsent a really good BDSM site that has sadly now shut down Anyways after a few months exchanging emails we agreed to meet up I met him at a local pub I was living in the Peak District at the time we chatted awhile my first impressions were what a well mannered gentleman, handsome,he was a widower. We went for lunch and chatted about this and that some vannilla chat and some Ds chat. He dropped me home and as he was leaving I invited him back that Saturday evening if he was free. Saturday came I was dressed in a black pvc dress thighboots and long red hair quickly dried. And waited for him to arrive. I had him pour me a glass of wine and put him under my heels while I chatted and sipped my wine. I told him he was sentenced to 10 strokes of each piece of my equipment ( lucky I didn’t have as much as I now have ) 14 pieces x 10 is 140 strokes. He worshipped my boots, my thighs and my breasts before I sent him on his way home, locked in a device. Tuesday there was a knock at my door and there was a courior with several huge cardboard wrapped heavy parcels. He helped me inside with them and he left I shut the door. I opened the packages an inside where instructions for putting together a St. Andrew’s Cross, a pillories and a spanking bench all hand made in wood and painted black. It’s was my very first dungeon I was super impressed he had taken a little snippet of our conversation in the pub Thursday and made my dreams come true ..... I had mentioned that one day I would like a dungeon of my own. I couldn’t believe he made it all in 4-5 days since we met..... this guy was a keeper right❤️ I was a single Domme back then exploring my lifestyle. I had been A Domme for 6 year when I met my partner. Within 3 months we were living together I moved county to Lincolnshire and have lived 11 happy years with him we have had more ups than downs together but the last 2-3 have been the hardest with his health issues. But we are together through thick and thin... committed to each other we are not married but fully Ds as much as possible. This pic is his 24/7 collar I gave him.
What a delightful post Madam, such a delight to hear of a D/s couple who have found each other and happiness. Truly inspiring; thank You so much for sharing Your experiences. Informed Consent was indeed wonderful; such a shame that it had to close.
To be honest during the 6 years as a single Domme I wasn’t looking to settle down. But I knew my partner was someone I wanted to be with even in the first meet . He’s never stopped supporting and encouraging me in my lifestyle. Below is my favourite pic of me he took not long after I moved to Lincolnshire (the one in the chair.) The other was me as a young single Domme in the Peak District
Thanks for sharing, really nice to hear of how peoples relationships form within this sort of lifestyle .
We met online. But the funny thing is most of his emails to me where about every day stuff not jumping straight into what I kinks and fetishes I had...one of the reasons I liked him.
It goes to show how sometimes fantasies really can happen. The initial meeting leading to an instant dungeon set up would normally be a bit much to accept, but the description of your early days and then how you made a life together is so nice. I would love to hear more about your lifestyle. I also think it is absolutely brilliant that you took the time to verify yourself as being female. Thank you for taking the time to do so. This recent addition to the way the Mansion is run has made a huge difference for me.
I have always had a group of Domme lady friends as I cultivate friendships within the lifestyle. I hold private fem Domme evenings and socials including a meals in my home and The Lair. I currently run a CFnm events in my area 3 times a year and two caning judicial courts annually. I am active in the U.K. scene attend various clubs and events when I get the time.i dont go to clubs with my partner sub as he is a private man. But helots my slave is my escort to events I want to attend.
@MzLeatherClad ... does your partner do the cooking & waiting on the guests for the socials? I dig the servitude aspect when my wife has her lady friends over. Some know the dynamics - most don't. It always amuses me to wonder what they think about this fellow who is so Johnny-on-the-spot for them.
I do cooking and serving for my wife and some of Her friends, but I can't imagine a room of lady Dommes. That would be quite a mental undertaking. Serving one is more than enough for me. I would feel so under the microscope. Although if I preformed well that would be a credit to Her. You are a very interesting woman and I am very happy you are here.
Thank you for sharing your personal story. I learned so much from Informed Consent. Sadly never got to meet anyone from there but had some wonderful chats, it was such a friendly site.