What would you do? How much self pleasure at the cost of time locked up?

1 rub equals 1 week I would say a minimum of 7, but probably 10. Now on the 1 rub equals 1 month I am actually living this one now. I was unlocked for a trip and my wife told me every orgasm equals one month of lock up. First part of the trip was with her and I had 2 orgasms with her. I should have stopped there because two months is longer than I've ever gone, but close to my longest. Something I'd feel comfortable accomplishing. Second part of my trip was working and I fell back into old bad habits. I decided I could handle 3 months and masturbated to some porn. I finally stopped myself two days and four orgasms later. I am now looking at 6 months which scares the heal out of me. I'm hoping to get time off for good behavior

 

i have trouble understanding how is being locked up a consequence when that is exactly what you want her to do. so lets make it a little harder. the first o get you 5 with crop the second one gets you 10 more the third gets 15 more and so on. each stroke will be hard enough to leave a welt for a week. do you want to play now?

 

my puck never locks himself either ,more often i am the one who puts it on. it does enhance the sex and prevents solo activity..

since i am the one who would give the strokes and i love my puck but i do love a red ass. so 1 would be good for me. two would be hard for both of us. not sure i could crop him 30 times for 3..... too compassionate i suppose.
he said he would not even think it .... no welts here please.....

 

Simple answer would be 2, I can handle 15 strokes. Tougher answer is the question of lock up being a consequence. When you say it's exactly "what you want her to do", that's not 100% accurate. This is what I am coming to appreciate is the dichotomy of chastity. Yes, I want to be locked up. I also want to be released once I'm locked up and allowed an orgasm. If I'm given what I want I am unhappy I received it because I lose my submissive glow that has me worshiping my wife.

I am certainly not one of the people in CM that harbors a fantasy of being locked up and never being allowed to cum again. So the trick is finding the sweet spot. The longer my wife keeps me locked, the longer we both reap the benefits, however at some point it goes too far and too long. I have not reached that point yet, but at 46 days I felt like I was close. That's why 6 months scares me so much.

 

who's the choreographer?

 

I would say 80% my KH and 20% me. When we started it was the other way around. I would like it to go even further, but for now at least we seem to have hit a wall. Still a very good place, I'm happy to be in.