I told my wife on my Chastity dream and she didn't freak out in fact she was very interested. We are very vanilla I tried to explain what I could. We looked at each other and said now what lol. I asked her to be my keyholder she said yes with an evil grin then locked me up then she left for the night to babysit the grandkids. Going to be a long night.
My Wife accepted the idea straightaway, and loves it. Chastity turns her on like almost nothing else, or at least until I got a PA... then she become totally confused---- she didn't want to lock it up! However, I'm locked again and she's enjoying every moment. Jay.
We're kinda in the same boat then. I told my wife last Tuesday, and here I sit... locked up in a CB. She embraced the femdom-aspects right away though she doesn't quite 'get' the chastity-idea. Oh well, she's happy to oblige if it means I'm constantly interested in her though. So far it's been a rush. I hope you''re enjoying it!