When I lay down in bed with the chasity device on she will always lately reach over and grab HER package on my body and fall asleep with it in HER hand. I have to say I LOVE IT. It makes me want to please her r better and more. I feel a surge like never before when shegrabs it and holds on, I cant explain it. The other day I said " its yours baby" and she surprised me by saying "about time you figured that out" I about came just hearing her say that..