Hey all, I thought it was about time that I write a bit. I'm not the best writer, so if something doesn't make sense, feel free to let me know. I'm 33, and have been married for 12 years. As long as I can remember, I've known I was submissive. When I married my wife, she wasn't dominant or submissive, or into any of that. Over the years, we've changed. I'm still submissive, and have told her about that. Gradually, she's looked into the lifestyle, and has moved towards the "Dominant" role. She's not really comfortable being a dominant 24/7 though. Right now, our relationship evolved to an "open" type. We're both completely happy with each other, but while I crave submission and being controlled, she craves just wild sex. Since we both have different needs, we do seek others outside our relationship. My wife does do her best to meet my needs, and I do try to meet hers. Which is where the chastity device comes in. She regularly makes me dress up during the day when she's at work. Panties, bra, nail polish, and makeup. This would drive me nuts, and i'd end up 'playing' multiple times during the day. She would come home, and be ready for some sex, and i'd be played out. So now we've got a birdlock device. I've worn it for a few hours at a time since we've got it, and today is the first day i'll be wearing it the entire time she's not home. And with no access to the keys(unless an emergency, she's got one hidden here at home). And to test the device, she made sure I dressed pretty. Makeup, nails, panties, bra, etc. I honestly have to say there's no way I can get out of this device. And i've tried. Anyway, I drift from the subject. This birdlock will make sure that i'm ready for her when she gets home from work. But we still do have an open relationship. Since she's not comfortable being dominant all the time for me, she's encouraged me to find someone that would. She's fine with sharing me, says it's a turn on, and she'd be happy to give a key to someone that wants to take on the job. I've had no luck so far. The one Mistress I did run into, was unable to come to an understanding with my wife, so that didn't work out(long story, ask if you're curious). But I haven't given up hope. Thanks for reading!