First, I don't know the custom here. My wife is out of town for 4 days and I want to keep a running log of my locked time. Do we make updates on the original post or a new post for each day? I'm happy to go either way. So, today is my second evening home alone while my wife is in a different city. I've been self-locked since she left. I'm not as horny today as I was yesterday. Maybe the novelty is wearing off. I mostly forgot about the cage today unless I accidentally brushed against something. I tried to edge with a vibrator, but didn't get much from it. I changed cages yesterday and this cage isn't as comfortable, but I'm keeping it on for now so I can go a true 48 hours without any unlock at all. Also, this one is more open so it's easier to clean and dry. I'm really hoping I get more desperate over the next two days. I did get an erection overnight. It was deliciously uncomfortable. It hurt so nice! I'm actually looking forward to more of those and, if I'm lucky, even more when the Mrs. teases me. I know it's a long road, but I hope she becomes ruthless.
I forgot another resource in my list: gwasi (dot) com It's a search index for the gonewildaudio subreddit. Allows you to find audio files with keywords like chastity, denial, cuckold, etc. For those of us turned on by audio stimulation, and into multi-tasking (listening while doing other things). Also, from the game sites I mentioned, I recommend games The Company, and Healslut. Though depends on your personal kink-drivers.
Well, this is day 3 and she comes home tomorrow. So far, no issues with chafing or pain anywhere (except the morning wood but I kinda love that pain). No real change from yesterday. I wanted to change my cage tonight to see if my other (smaller) one causes less pain in the morning. I took the ice block out of the freezer and, after five hours, I still needed to run it under hot water to get the key out. So, I suppose that's an effective way to stall myself provided I'm not desperate enough to use hot water. Anyway, I'm back in my favorite cage and getting ready to go to bed. I'm a little worried I can't wear it long term because it's pretty closed off. I'm worried about cleaning up with the relative lack of space compared to the other cage. That said, it's better at preventing erections. I tried texting my wife for a sexy discussion but she appears to be sleeping already. I got a subscription to omgyes.com and I wanted to share it with her. I want to make it clear to her that her pleasure is my priority. I planned to introduce chastity as another way to approach that.
Just don't overwhelm her with whatever you bring up, especially if she's just returning from a trip. She'd be starting from basically 0, while you're definitely not... you're going way faster than her, so you'll need to slow down and give her a chance to speed up gradually. Otherwise she might shut down entirely, even if she was interested in the exploration you're after.