I'm new to this, and I'm very excited to give this a try in person. I'm a virgin and just the thought of being locked away and denied for the rest of my life is euphoric. Especially the idea of being teased by the taste, sight and smell of a pussy and being denied entry. So where can I find a dominant female in real life that would want a slave like me? Are there popular sites?
Hi there and welcome to the site. I hope you find it enjoyable and informative. Finding a dominant female in real life is not the easiest thing to do. There are many who will offer what you seek with an online relationship for a pretty price but they will neither care nor help you enjoy this world very much as it is a very limited scenario. - Yes I know I also do online domme and I offer this service but that is a very limited service by necessity. I found the way to find real life people is to go to real life events, depending on where you are based depends on what is available. I found my local fetlife group and that led me to munches, clubnights and my now situation of a real life relationship which encompasses both vanilla and kink and pro domme working out of a city centre dungeon. I love this life but I have come to realise that I am in a rather small nice. Take your time and meet people in real life, it makes all the difference. MJ
There seem to be ten wannabe subs for every potential domme so if you are hoping to find a made-to-measure mistress then it could be a long search.You could start by giving a lot more info about yourself;a little exposure helps to demonstrate commitment to submission.If you are looking for a life partner,she could appear anywhere and often in the most unexpected places.Hide your kinks to not seem creepy;be polite,helpful and happy;play the part of the man that your ideal woman would wish to meet.CM member Claire Payne has a neat formula:"I'm so happy to have met the man I never knew I was looking for".Good luck and happy birthday for tomorrow;you only 'come of age' once.As for me I haven't cum for ages...
Your profile page is needs a lot more information. If you're interested in wearing a chastity device, buy one now and practise wearing it so you are ready when you find a Mistress.
@Mistress Jules reply was spot on get out go find your local munches and clubs and alternative markets are much better prospects for finding a real person to play with. Xx Wendy
Alternatively try looking down the back of the sofa, you find al sorts down there you know... Seriously though Mistress Jules has put it very well.
Sometimes (not always), you can find the perfect partner who is not dominant, but over time they become dominant. My wife used to be very shy and awkward about dominating me in the bedroom, but she did it in other ways that she never realised. You might meet someone and open their eyes. So even if you find a mistress who's not perfect, she can learn. It's good for everyone to keep on learning and evolving.
i have heard that these devilish creatures lurk in the dark places of the world. You could try visiting theses dark places, some of them are a lot of fun!
This has been a problem since the advent of the internet. All the brick and mortar stores you used to be able to go to buy one are disappearing.