My plan is to stay in chastity for the rest of my life or as long as I can. I don't have a keyholder now since one year but still in it and don't have any keys around. Looking for a kh, man or women, that is strict about chastity and spanking. What,s your plan in chastity for your life, yours or your partners?
Not sure about being caged for life. When the time comes to go to a old folks home I already know I'll be the kinkiest dude there but I doubt I'll advertise the fact. Also good luck with doctors appointments, X-ray pictures, air travel, jury duty, penectomies, etc.
Follow what mistresses plan for me is , and submit to her control and wishes whilst locked and denied
The great thing about having a Loving Mistress hold your key is that your under Her Control. If she wants you unlocked for the weekend as mine just did than you'll be unlocked, you may not want the freedom but it's not your decision to make. We also still have to function in the real world and I don't think most of the world is ready to see your locked up penis.
Have been to doctor with cage on, no problems, air-travel with a Holy Trainer V2 no problems, we don´t have jury duty in Sweden so no problem. X-ray, yes can be a problem but there is a thing called key it´s not permanent! And I was´nt used to show my penis before lock in so there is no problems for the rest of the world either, I hope!
[QUOTE="........I don'thave a keyholder now since one year but still in it and don't have any keys around.......[/QUOTE] Short of bolt cutters, having no keys sounds permanent to me. However I still wish you luck in your quest.
I don't really get those that want to be caged forever. I don't understand why some want to do it alone either. When I suggested it to my better half it was about improving our sex life (I was mainly sorting myself out) and wanted her to have more control over that. We've been doing this on and off since December and it seems to be working.
I totally understand your thinking but please consider that even single/divorced people like to be kinky and have fun.
We are in our mid sixties so sooner or later medical issues will determine when to quit chastity. So far we are on our 5th year and we both like it like that. I do not like chastity for chastity's sake. I like being constantly horn so that my wife's daily teasing feels very pleasurable. I am used to giving pleasure more than receiving it. Up to 7 years ago I would assist my wife and her girlfriend to give each other an orgasm. I was left to masturbate most times but once in awhile I was given a hand job while under painful conditions. I did that for half of my marriage so I am used to giving pleasure and being teased all the time.
I hope to increase my denial time, but I would never tell her. I do tell her, how much I enjoy being horny and submissive, and I can tell she enjoys our daily tease and denial sessions. So I think I may get my wish.