What drew you to the chastity lifestyle

I think you need to read more carefully, It says I am left unlocked over night AFTER SEX, which is about every 12 days. But forgive the rounding errors.

If you do the reverse maths you should/would have worked that out.

Smartarse

 

For me it was extension on bondage. Had never heard of male chastity until I stumbled on a CB device looking at new bondage gear. Showed it to my wife and we both thought it’d be a fun way to expand bondage into longer term while also being discrete in public.

It’s grown in appeal quite a bit now but that’s how it started.

 

Fair enough. Your statement was not clear since you didn't specify the frequency. That and it was 5:20 am when I scanned past the comment.

"smartarse" was unnecessary.

 

Curiosity mainly. Then the wife took to it eagerly once we actually tried it. It was a rush for both of us. Here we are a couple months from our first locking, and we are already planning on a custom cage. It has definitely added to our sex life, and rekindled some of the passion of our youth.

 

I have never cheated on my current partner but I have done on previous partners. It’s not something I'm proud of. I'm not locked due to cheating, but my wife and I look at chastity and my chastity tattoo as a way to make any potential cheating opportunities more difficult. I initially introduced chastity to her as a way to curb my masturbation habits, but keeping me in chastity gives us peace of mind that I'm saving my orgasms for us.

 

Would love to see your tattoo… we want to get some kind of couples tattoos and I know some on here have them but haven’t seen anything specific we love.

My “infidelity” was before we were married but we were together so it still counts in my eyes…was a very hard time for me personally and I took things out in a very wrong way. We didn’t start the chastity lifestyle until after we were married so there was time for things to settle in between but it’s still haunts me some days. The cage serves as a reminder to me to always stay faithful (which I would even without it) and all the other benefits that come with being locked up.

 

We have explored many kinks over the years, and this seemed to be the next good one to try. My caged husband is actually more into sex (PIV) than I have been lately, so having him caged and locked up tight seemed a great idea! Now it's only when I want to get playful that I allow the cage to come off! In the meantime, we do other fun things that don't include PIV.