What does wearing heels do for you??

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    I know that this subject has been discussed and explored in a mostly private way here but it's maybe time that it was brought out into the open?

    What has prompted it is a lady based in Scotland who is making a bid in the coming days for greater power than she already has. I don't want to name her and bring politics into this as that's not what it's about. ;)

    In the past she was known for wearing frumpy flats but now she is sporting heels that catch one's attention. I first noticed them during a TV debate a little while ago - suddenly she was a good 4" or more taller and looking very smart. And then in interviews she would move her stilettoed feet around - not quite shoe dangling though.

    So it made me wonder just how important heels are to the members here.

    For the ladies, do they help you feel more dominant or are flats or kitten heels just as good? Or is dress not a part of domination?

    For the others here, is it important to wear heels when you dress? If you do dress that is.

    What added dimension does it bring? Do they help put you in "the zone"?

    Do the guys here wear heels around the house while in boy mode? In fact, have you worn heels out and about while in that mode?

    And just so the non dressing members don't feel left out - have you ever considered trying heels?

    Final part of a wide set of questions, do you have a fave pair of heels that you want to share with us?

    I have set up an album for photos of you wearing your favourite heels :) Shoes and calves should be sufficient - but I suppose if you have great pins you might want to show more!

    I haven't posted any of my pics yet as I am currently travelling and don't have access to my laptop of pics ;)

    Ooh - and I see that @MistressArtemis has joined today and has a great shoe avatar - welcome!
     
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    Heels with seamed stockings are my favourite feelgood look. I feel pretty invincible when I wear them.
     
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    I love heels, just got some nice 4-5" that I would share but I can't seem to add a photo to the album from mobile.
     
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    A woman in heels, for me is an immense turn on.

    add some stockings and that killer little red or black dress and i'm putty in her hands
     
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    You have to wear heels to know just how different you feel . Obviously 4 inch or so taller so everything looks different.

    If you are not a regular wearer then keeping your balance and walking nicely .
    Heels and bare legs obviously glass smooth or with stockings , probably stockings.

    I did a photo shoot a little while back for an art student. Her and her two assistants all about 20 one I work with every day in boots and combats! !
    I walked out in heels they wispered to each other along the lines of how the fxxk did learn to walk in heels like a woman. I just turned and just gave them the don't I look good look .

    Xx Wendy
     
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    The photo that seems to be my cover if a mod could move it to my nails album you should be able to see my heels :))


    Xx Wendy
     
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    I couldn't explain it better, I am the same way.
     
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    Edit folder again, look at dropdown who can upload to folder pick members or everyone.
     
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    If you guys didn't feel like that we would be asking to check your vitals for any sign of life!! :p

    I should have titled the thread "What Does Wearing Heels Do For You?" - I will try and get it changed. But on that matter @ghost and @her knight , have you ever tried heels and found the buzz?

    Absolutely @Wendygirl so right - and suddenly the kitchen worksurface is that bit more distant LOL
    Done the change - see if it works any better :)
     
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    I can't seem to add a photo to the album, all the more cause for a nice photo thread...
    20150429_115032.jpg
     
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    LOL - that's what I was trying to avoid!

    Just have people making comments and talking about the "Feel of Heels" :) - and put pics in a Gallery with maybe just a link here.

    There seems to be a glitch in the system.
     
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    Heels my wearing them makes me feel like a fabulous hot sissy maid
     
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    No, I have not tried them on.
     
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    Hmm - we'll have to get @Wendygirl to have a word with you :p
     
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    @maid_carrie yup, but although i like wearing heels now and again and even have a few pairs i don't wear them all the time only when i'm in the mood as i'm kinda shy.

    might explain why i'm single
     
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    @her knight
    Please report to my study after dinner we need to find out why .
    Xx Wendy
     
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    @Wendygirl, trust me I don't have the legs to make heels look good.
     
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    Oh contrair @her knight

    Heels do wonders for legs and bums make you stand up properly .

    Xx Wendy
     
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    They make me walk funny :rolleyes: and make my legs and calves hurt.
     
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    So is that Mistress.L responding? Or servant /slut/slave/bitch? :p
     
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    Hello All.
    1) A WOMAN wearing heels INSTANTLY draws my attention. She has a leg up over the God awful flip-flop and flat wearers because she is obviously aware that appearance and perception matter more than comfort. A professional woman in heels (and hosiery--bare legs are only acceptable to me in a wispy summery sundress w strappy high heel sandals) is a force to be reckoned with...she is in charge of her domain...as if she is saying "damn the consequences (discomfort), I look good, I know you know I look good and being the best requires sacrifice"...it is like a guy taking time to shave or neatly trim facial hair and wear a tie. This woman makes me melt....like my Wife/Mistress/Keyholder did the very first time I saw her after work in her business attire nearly 20 years ago.

    2) Well for me, I still remember vividly the very first time my Wife/Mistress/Keyholder stood in front of me in her business attire as slipped on a pair of heels she ordered for me after our first dressing session. She called me from work and invited me to her apartment for dinner and told me to let myself in and go to the dresser drawer she assigned me and put on the long sleeve short black dress she donated to me, a thong and thigh highs and to put on some music and wait on the couch for her because the shoes she ordered for me had arrived at her office. I remember waiting feeling weak in the knees and with butterflies in my stomach wondering what I was getting myself into. Well, when she arrived home she looked smashing in one of her business suits, hose and power heels. She ushered me to the bedroom after pouring herself a glass of wine and had me sit on the bed and presented me with the shoebox and asked me to try on my new shoes. They were shiny, black, strappy 4" stiletto heels. This was before chastity and I remember how aroused I became as I slipped them on and stood up with an erection obvious through my dress. I remember her closing her door so I could look at myself in the full length mirror as she walked up behind me and wrapped her arms around me and told me how hot I looked...I could barely stand because my knees were so weak and because of the 4" heels. Well, we vacated the bedroom and she had me practice walking and standing in her kitchen while she warmed us a nice dinner she had picked up on the way home. I ended up staying dressed the entire evening. It was a very odd feeling walking around her apartment as I helped her clean up afterward. We sat and watched a movie, I remember her removing her heels and asking for a foot rub as we chatted enjoying the movie...it all felt quite normal by the time things started to heat up on the couch before she led me tottering on my heels to her bedroom by the hand...I have never quite been the same since...I don't wear heels often, but when I do, I am overwhelmed with pangs of submission and as I recall that night nearly 20 years with the incredible beauty who went on to become my Wife/Mistress/Keyholder and mother of our children....

    SIMPLE SUMMARY: Heels are hot...they are probably simply the most impactful clothing accessory (next to a mans tie) for either sex and can ellicit an ocean of emotions depending upon the style and situation to men and women alike.

    allaboutHer
     
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    I just LOVE shopping for shoes and trying on dozens of heels! Even if I have no intention of getting them!
    I agree with many things already said... Power... Attention... They way they lengthen your leg... The sexy feel... But for me... In a word... They make me feel real!
     

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    Ooooh yes, shopping for shoes is the best thingy ever. i thinks heels make legs look lovely as well but they do make your tootsies ache after you had them on all day.
     
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    Hi.
    Pink is for slut/slave/bitch. .
     
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