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  1. madams-sissysub
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    I agree! You need to sit down and talk things through, but to add I was totally against cuckolding for years, but finally agreed to it, and wished I had done it sooner now!!
     
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    Like many things with sex, you have to be open but honest about your feelings. Continue to communicate with your wife so you have a better chance at reaching an agreeable path.
     
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    Honestly for me personally I would just embrace it. Its been a secret fantasy of mine like forever. Everyone is different but like you, I have not had PIV for 4 years as well. My fantasy has become reality were my penis no longer gets hard for women (lots of hypo). Ive trained myself to stay soft and like you I can’t satisfy her. I can still get hard unfortunately but under juicy thoughts. I would want her to be satisfied my a real man to confirm me as a feminate cuck. But this is just me! Good luck.
     
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    i think i would agree but probably only if i was there to see her enjoying herself and to make sure no cell numbers were exchanged so it didnt go anywhere and it was just to satisfy her big cock passion.
     
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    Dr MBogo You heard the lady! In you go.....

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    Thank to all who have commented. Here's an update: We talked several times over the last few days about this. I told her I understood but was not completely comfortable with her taking a lover. She was very gracious about it, and acknowledged that the more she thought about it, the less comfortable she was. I suggested we could try some of the more high-end dildos, as several have suggested here, and she happily said yes. We looked online together and ordered one of these:
    https://vixen-creations.myshopify.com/products/gambler?variant=12115951321204

    Again, thanks for all the suggestions, and I'll keep updating!
     
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    It sounds like you both handled that very well. I know that I wouldn't even consider that option as it would destroy me and shortly thereafter our marriage. I hope the better toys are a good solution for you both. Good luck.
     
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    That is a very large replacement. I hope you like not being able to satisfy her with your own member.
     
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    i think the danger is she finds a regular lover then evechaly develops feelings for him and you end up without a wife . its a great fanatasy but could go very wrong .best of luck
     
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    My husband and I are now in a cuckold marriage. Indeed, it is hard completely to eliminate feelings for my partners. One way to reduce the risk of becoming overly attached to someone is to have multiple partners, and to limit the frequency of meetings with any one partner. Another advantage for me is that I get to enjoy a greater variety of experiences. Although I do enjoy dildos and other toys, they are not really a substitute for a real penis, especially one connected to an attractive, attentive, and skilled man.

    A cuckold marriage works only if both partners are in full agreement about proceeding, there are mutually agreed ground rules ahead of time, and there is continual open communication. Since you are not completely on board, Dr. MBogo, I agree that you should probably not proceed at this time. Attitudes do change over time, as your wife’s have, and it is always possible that you will decide cuckolding is right for you in the future.
     
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    Man that's a monster! Just to add. If your wife is looking for size specifically. Then i personally don't think cuckold is the path to take. Finding a compatible guy WITH that size is going to be difficult.

    Hopefully vixskin will help you two.
     
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    Dr MBogo You heard the lady! In you go.....

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    LOL-she picked it out! I told you she wanted something big!
     
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    At some point, my wife may reach out to you to hear more about it.
     
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    She picked it out-I told you she wanted something big, LOL! And I have no doubt she can take it. I can't come close to filling her, in either girth or length. I actually slip out, even at my hardest. To quote her, "Your cock in me is like a toothpick in a toilet paper tube."
     
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    Thanks so much. My wife read your post, and at some point may reach out to you with questions.
     
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    I would be happy to help
     
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    I wonder if she already has someone in mind?
     
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    I would be happy to share our experiences with your wife.
     
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