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    #26 Jasmic68, Dec 17, 2015
    I want to try delay cream so that my wife can be satisfied while denying me an orgasm. The need to please her while keeping myself from getting anywhere will be so intense, it really excites me. I would do what I have read others do and double wrap with a delay condom but my wife likes the feel of me rather than something man made. We tried a penis sheath and she hated it.
     
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    #27 Malagacouple, Dec 17, 2015
    With your wife on condoms. We are toying with the viagra route, but drugs are a bit scary
     
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    Joroincharge Lock em up - 24/7/365!!

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    #28 Joroincharge, Dec 17, 2015
    The destination can be whatever you want. Thre is no right answer - we're all different. But to work it needs to be the KH who makes the decisions.
     
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    #29 Malagacouple, Dec 18, 2015
    You are quite right Joro. I did make the decision because it suited me at the time. Lock up will happen in no more than 3 days when I decide. Meanwhile he is on the honour system. Bren
     
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    #30 Malagacouple, Dec 19, 2015
    Sod's Law! I released Del Thursday night for a day or two, and was so looking forward to cuddles, a lot of me time, and even a bit of us time. So what happens - I get a streaming cold, with all the misery that goes with it. The meds even say not to have a drink :( .

    It was easy enough to put the cage back, I just wish I could swap places with the cold. Now we'll play cold table tennis for a while, and be about as much use to each other as a chocolate cage, to use a more appropriate variation on the teapot / fireguard phrase.

    Bren
     
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    Caged Wolf A Wolf, even caged, is still a Wolf.

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    #31 Caged Wolf, Dec 19, 2015
    Lady Bren,
    Mistress Wolf and i have been fighting the colds, etc also, and it has really put a crimp on things over the last couple of months. It is difficult to feel up to "nakee funtime" when you can't breathe without snorting, BUT it has given us a lot of time to talk and work out details, etc. Everything for a reason...

    caged wolf
     
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    #32 Malagacouple, Dec 19, 2015
    Maybe for a reason, but at the moment I feel completely unreasonable! We can't even talk things over as I've lost my voice.
     
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    Caged Wolf A Wolf, even caged, is still a Wolf.

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    #33 Caged Wolf, Dec 19, 2015
    text, pen and paper, etc... makes choosing the words that much more important...
     
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    #34 Jasmic68, Dec 19, 2015
    The good thing about this is while he waits for you to get better the sexual tension rises (pun intended) meaning all the more scope for teasing when you finally feel up to it. Win win situation as far as I can tell!
     
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    #35 Malagacouple, Dec 19, 2015
    I'm hoping for that, for the moment everything is off the agenda except the cage which is firmly on. It's separate rooms at the moment, nothing other than I don't want to pass it on.

    B
     
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    #36 Jasmic68, Dec 19, 2015
    My Wife and I always sleep in separate rooms, she is a light sleeper and apparently I snore. I am also a bit of a night person, going to bed a few hours after her. I do miss the chance of a morning cuddle occasionally, but it suits her.
     
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    #37 Malagacouple, Dec 20, 2015
    We have gone German! Double bed but two single duvets. Brilliant idea they had there
     
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    #38 Malagacouple, Dec 20, 2015
    Del typing. Bren still has her streaming cold and has retired to bed. So, a bit of a reflection. I was released on Thursday, and Bren wanted full sex, which was great. We are still very new to this, and the plan was one to three days out. The cold made that 12 hours.

    That was actually great. Within a day I was back in my cage, which already seems the right place to be. Bren has already told me that the next four to seven days will be whenever she feels better. I hate to see her poorly, but a long cold would be great for extending time, once we know that longer is possible it can become the norm. It isn't up to me, but I am hoping for effective permanence.

    Otherwise, the forum is giving Bren some new ideas, but they will have to wait
     
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    #39 Jasmic68, Dec 21, 2015
    I have only been released twice to service my Wife with PIV sex twice since the start of October and had only one orgasm in all that time. She now ensures I am locked up 24/7 and only lets me have a few hours now and again to give my body a chance to relax without the device on. I think that will develop into my new normal. It depends on how much she wants my P in her V. As she gets plenty of my tongue and fingers it probably won't be that often.
     
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    #40 Malagacouple, Dec 21, 2015
    But today will be a doddle, it's the shortest day! More seriously, you are a bit of an inspiration to us, both for increasing our confidence that we can get there and for giving manageable ideas.
     
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    #41 Jasmic68, Dec 21, 2015
    I am really happy you feel like that. I am just telling it as it happens to me, I think a lot of the praise must be given to my Wife. My early story was about my desires and hopes along with lots of failures and a few mental nervous crises. Just recently it has turned into a more descriptive journal as my Wife has taken over so much.
     
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    #42 Malagacouple, Dec 26, 2015
    Del writing ...

    So, it's Boxing Day, which seemed a good day to put some thoughts down. I've just had my first locked Christmas, best one ever! Maybe not ever, the one when I got a bike as a kid was pretty good too, but the feeling of excitement was much the same.

    Bren wrote somewhere on here that she was probably going to keep me locked up over Christmas, she has, and bearing in mind we are just starting out, the four day trial run has been followed up by ten.

    One thing I have realised is that I need new clothes. Most of my trousers and jeans aren't particularly comfortable, I need a better fit to hold the bits in place and softer and lighter materials. It's a good job the sales are starting, so it will be a trip to get a new wardrobe. I hope I will be allowed to experiment with new styles, colours and so on, as most of my stuff is pretty mainstream and boring.

    More generally, we have found our new comfort zone, and roll on 2016
     
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