Very personal thing

I'm in a similar situation

 

Let her make the decisions and be happy she wants to play

 

In openly and actively homophobic Russia? Riiiiiiiiight.
As to advice - 2ch is so much better for such cool stories.

 

You are light years ahead of your wife with your fantasy’s. I’m a guy and I get it, but she a girl and she does not get it. Not to say that there’s not women out there that do get it there surely are, but most of them don’t. Try looking at it from another angle. You have more than most men have, be grateful for it. Let her use your penis if she wants, use numbing cream or lots of condoms so you get no pleasure from it. You’re just a tool for her to feel good and be amused. Just a sex toy with very little hope of ever feeling pleasure through your cock again.

I wouldn’t push too hard on the cuckold fantasy if she’s not willing. You could ruin it for both of you.

 

Well, to begin with, you can't force anyone to share your sexual fantasy/fetish if they don't feel it. It's impossible. Given that, here's my thoughts:

1) do you (or does she) want children? That could be driving her desire for your cock.

2) Many people really do take their marriage vows of fidelity seriously. My wife and I do, which is a big reason we haven't done cuckolding, even though we both fantasize about it. Bringing in a 3rd person is a huge step. Assuming you and she took those vows, it's not fair to expect her to break them. She has to make that decision herself.

3) Perhaps she just likes real cock better than a dildo or strap on, despite the fact that she seems to come more easily from the latter?, My wife was that way for years. Then as I got older and wasn't as capable of performing, she realized that while she'd still prefer the real thing, my cock wasn't big enough or hard enough for long enough to satisfy her, in comparison to my fingers, mouth, or a toy.

I'd suggest backing off, and rethinking your desires/needs. If cuckolding is a deal-breaker for you, then you should tell her, but be ready for the marriage to end. AND-be prepared: we are a small community-there aren't that many women (or men) who are truly into cuckolding. You may NEVER find someone who is. Are you willing to give up all the good things you describe just because she won't go for cuckolding? I'd think long and hard about that..........

 

Your wife seems like a real open person. She willingly joins in and participates in nearly all your kinks. It would be a shame to ruin your relationship through insisting on this one thing.
I would just enjoy what you have. Keep talking to her occasionally about your desire, who knows what the future might hold.
Most people Who bring a third person into their relationship, take a long time to get to the point of it actually happening. There is no rush.

 

I rest my case.

 

Indeed.

 

Listen to your wife.

Is the fantasy that she is in charge and that she may make you do things you don't want to do?

She's doing that. It's not necessarily what you want, but the reality is that your wife is doing things you don't want. That's exactly what you sought.

Why be frustrated at not getting what you want? That's the whole idea, is it not?

Deny me. Prevent me. Don't let me. Control me. You be in charge, dear. I'll defer to you. Please let's live a life where you get what you want, and I bow to your will.

That's what's happening. If you really want to bow to your wife's will, then listen to her. Accept her choices. THAT is submission.

 

Just be happy
Your wife loves you and needs to feel you inside her coming
She already answers a lot of your desires , why not do the same for her .
A relationship between two persons is a question of mutual respect .
Respect her desires and be happy with what she's giving you

Wanting to go further is the high risk of loosing her love ans seeing her going away with someone else . I don't think this is what you want ...

 

Dude! You have a 9 inch cock!!! No she’s not into finding another cock to fuck.

I noticed most of the activities you mentioned revolve around you interacting with the man. Maybe most of your interest is about you exploring that while you’re wife watches.

 

Would she let you take female hormones and anti androgens? Maybe she would be ok if you could still get erect with viagra when she wanted it. You’d probably slowly shrink if your erections are infrequent.

 

Дорогой вы зашли уже далеко, надо возвращаться к реальности
Your wife sounds like a wonderful, generous and friendly soul. She has accepted you for who you are but this kink - chastity and feminisation - can spin out of control. Try to balance it with some mindfulness practices and see how you can reconcile her needs and yours. Lots of of love to you both!

 

It sounds like your wife is very grounded and knows where the boundaries should be - for your own physical well-being and her happiness and pleasure. I hope you to learn to fully submit to her by accepting her judgment on this and her will for you.

It’s a nice idea of the man as a mere attachment to the woman - but then shouldn’t you aspire to be a pleasing attachment, big fat cock and all?

 

Most Flr relationship are about being lead by your wife and what pleases her. We started ours because i was out of control trying to stick my little cock in her all the time and not getting any of my business or chores down. My Queen no different than yours she still wants my cock and would unlock mine more if i was blessed to have a 9 inch cock not a 5 inch that doesnt satisfy her anymore. We r best friends and talked about keeping her little bitty locked for when she wants anal. Its to the point i dont want to be unlocked because i see and the disappointment when im inside of her. We bought a $500 realistc cock from real doll to help but still not the same. Mistress does have a 10 inch long 3.25 thick cock she makes me ride to stretch my boi pussy to look abused like i did her.

We have been having talks about cuckolding because i want her to have orgasms from a cock being in her. Neither one want her to go on dates or spend the night with a bull. Thats a deal breaker. Mistress has made me agree if its to happen the bull has to accept me sucking him hard to fuck her then finish in my mouth not her pussy because she feels that where he should finish his load. I have agreed to it because its about her pleasures not mine after agreeing to flr and male chastiy. Kinda sounds like you have lost your way with submission to your wife/Mistress and its about your sexual desires. Good luck and hope you dont loose what you have with her!

 

I agree,

 

I feel sorry for you. You're truly a pathetic fuck. If I was your wife I would divorce you and seek a real man to fulfill my needs.

 

Can we just skip to the part where your wife seize the light and agrees to do everything you want and now you're happy as you can be and the world is right I hate it when the story is drawn out